EP163: If Not Now, Then When?

The Define Success Podcast with Matt Lupi

Welcome to another insightful episode of the Define Success Podcast with your host, Matt Lupi. In today's episode, we dive deep into the profound question that plagues us all at some point: "If not now, then when?"

Procrastination is a universal struggle that we've all encountered to varying degrees. How many times have you harbored a brilliant idea or set ambitious goals, only to let them languish, unfulfilled? If you claim you've never experienced this, it's time for some introspection because, let's face it, we're all guilty to some extent.

But why do we procrastinate? There are usually two main culprits. First, there are moments when we're just too comfortable in our inertia, succumbing to laziness. No sugarcoating needed – it happens. Second, there are times when the goal at hand doesn't quite light the fire of passion within us. Taking action in such situations can feel as painful as pulling teeth.

We often find ourselves caught in the web of our daily schedules. Even when life isn't overwhelmingly busy, it's easy to believe that there's no room for a new habit, morning routine, or side hustle. Consequently, we end up taking no action on the very things we claim to desire. The truth is, what we fail to prioritize, we inevitably fail to achieve.

In such moments, it's essential to ask yourself that powerful question: "If not now, then when?" The answer to this question can lead to one of three outcomes:

1. Immediate Action: You recognize that it's your ego holding you back, and you understand the importance of getting to work. Matt Lupi shares his experience of preparing to cold plunge – his mind initially resists, but he conquers that resistance with action.

2. A Plan for Action: You come to terms with the fact that "someday" is not a day of the week. Matt Lupi, for instance, reveals how he resurrected his consistent saving and investment habits by setting specific goals, timelines, and commitments. No more vague promises to yourself.

3. No Pursuit at All: Sometimes, it's okay to embrace the fact that you can't juggle 20 different things simultaneously. If your plate is already full or you're presented with opportunities that don't align with your true passions, it's perfectly acceptable to say no. Matt Lupi candidly explores those moments when his ego tempted him to follow others' paths, only to realize that the pursuit was not aligned with his true desires. This episode will help you find peace in recognizing when to say no and focus on what truly matters.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of procrastination, self-awareness, and the power of making the right choices at the right time. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode of the Define Success Podcast with Matt Lupi. Remember, success begins with understanding that question: "If not now, then when?"