Reclaiming Love: How To Win Their Heart Back?

Sober on Purpose - Healing Families of Addiction

In this episode of Sober On Purpose, we delve into the complexities of marriage, especially when both partners have been shaped by chaotic childhoods. Our guest, Larry Bilotta, a relationship and marriage expert with over 40 years of experience, shares his profound insights on navigating the emotional turmoil that often arises in such unions.

Larry introduces us to the "Chaos to Purpose Scale," a powerful tool that helps couples understand where they and their spouses fall in terms of emotional stability and childhood experiences. This scale is crucial for identifying the root causes of marital conflict and provides a roadmap for addressing deep-seated issues.

Larry's personal journey of enduring and overcoming a "hard marriage" with his wife Marsha serves as a testament to the transformative power of understanding and healing. Raised in a household filled with anger and shutdowns, Larry found himself in a marriage where both partners brought unresolved childhood pain into their relationship. Despite these challenges, they found a way to not only survive but thrive.

In this episode, Larry offers practical advice on how to support a spouse who may be seeking a divorce or going through a midlife crisis, emphasizing the importance of understanding their emotional state through the lens of their early childhood experiences.

If you’re in a marriage marked by conflict or confusion, this conversation is for you. Tune in to learn how to navigate the challenges of a marriage shaped by chaos and discover the steps you can take to bring more purpose and harmony into your relationship.

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👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

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