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BETTER SEX THROUGH PLAY with Andre Lazarus
Manage episode 408250711 series 2932778
Sex coach and sexual surrogate Andre and LMFT therapist Jane share tips on making bad sex good, and good sex even better...discussing the best ways to communicate during sex, what makes a great lover, and how to give and receive the best oral sex you've ever had...
In this conversation, Andre Lazarus and Jane discuss various aspects of relationships and sexual pleasure. They explore topics such as navigating different sexual preferences, embracing imperfection in relationships, dealing with jealousy, overcoming negative self-stories, and dispelling shame and blind spots. They also emphasize the importance of trying something different, embracing play in relationships, and letting go of pressure. The conversation highlights the need for open communication, exploring and learning from sexual experiences, and taking responsibility for one's own turn-on. They also discuss how to give great cunnilingus, the impact of porn on sexual experiences, and the importance of finding variety and sensuality in sexual content. The conversation concludes with a focus on the power of speaking up and embracing authenticity in relationships.
Takeaways
· Discovering one's sexuality can be a challenging and clunky journey, but its worth it!
· Authenticity and direct communication are important in relationships to avoid misunderstandings and unmet needs.
· Physical appearance does not guarantee success in relationships, and confidence and self-worth play a significant role.
· Jealousy can be a complex emotion, and exploring its underlying desires and fears can lead to personal growth.
· Open and honest communication is crucial in non-monogamous relationships to navigate jealousy and maintain trust. Embrace imperfection in relationships and understand that what works for one person may not work for another.
· Communicate openly and honestly about your desires, boundaries, and insecurities to create a safe and fulfilling sexual experience.
· Explore and experiment with different sexual experiences, techniques, and sensations to discover what brings you pleasure.
· Prioritize playfulness and fun in your sexual experiences, letting go of the pressure to perform or meet unrealistic expectations.
· Take responsibility for your own turn-on and pleasure, understanding that it is your responsibility to communicate and explore what brings you pleasure.
Chapters
00:00Introduction and Personal Story
03:40Challenges in Discovering Sexuality
08:46The Playful Side of Adults
12:46Direct Communication and Authenticity
16:22The Influence of Physical Appearance
21:28The Void and the Desire for Validation
26:08The Role of Projections in Relationships
29:05Jealousy and the Existential Kink
35:18Communication in Non-Monogamous Relationships
38:47Navigating Different Sexual Preferences
39:17Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
40:13Dealing with Jealousy
41:03Overcoming Negative Self-Stories
42:36Dispelling Shame and Blind Spots
43:09Trying Something Different
43:42The Importance of Play in Relationships
44:40Embracing Fun and Letting Go of Pressure
45:37Exploring and Learning from Sexual Experiences
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
58 episod
Manage episode 408250711 series 2932778
Sex coach and sexual surrogate Andre and LMFT therapist Jane share tips on making bad sex good, and good sex even better...discussing the best ways to communicate during sex, what makes a great lover, and how to give and receive the best oral sex you've ever had...
In this conversation, Andre Lazarus and Jane discuss various aspects of relationships and sexual pleasure. They explore topics such as navigating different sexual preferences, embracing imperfection in relationships, dealing with jealousy, overcoming negative self-stories, and dispelling shame and blind spots. They also emphasize the importance of trying something different, embracing play in relationships, and letting go of pressure. The conversation highlights the need for open communication, exploring and learning from sexual experiences, and taking responsibility for one's own turn-on. They also discuss how to give great cunnilingus, the impact of porn on sexual experiences, and the importance of finding variety and sensuality in sexual content. The conversation concludes with a focus on the power of speaking up and embracing authenticity in relationships.
Takeaways
· Discovering one's sexuality can be a challenging and clunky journey, but its worth it!
· Authenticity and direct communication are important in relationships to avoid misunderstandings and unmet needs.
· Physical appearance does not guarantee success in relationships, and confidence and self-worth play a significant role.
· Jealousy can be a complex emotion, and exploring its underlying desires and fears can lead to personal growth.
· Open and honest communication is crucial in non-monogamous relationships to navigate jealousy and maintain trust. Embrace imperfection in relationships and understand that what works for one person may not work for another.
· Communicate openly and honestly about your desires, boundaries, and insecurities to create a safe and fulfilling sexual experience.
· Explore and experiment with different sexual experiences, techniques, and sensations to discover what brings you pleasure.
· Prioritize playfulness and fun in your sexual experiences, letting go of the pressure to perform or meet unrealistic expectations.
· Take responsibility for your own turn-on and pleasure, understanding that it is your responsibility to communicate and explore what brings you pleasure.
Chapters
00:00Introduction and Personal Story
03:40Challenges in Discovering Sexuality
08:46The Playful Side of Adults
12:46Direct Communication and Authenticity
16:22The Influence of Physical Appearance
21:28The Void and the Desire for Validation
26:08The Role of Projections in Relationships
29:05Jealousy and the Existential Kink
35:18Communication in Non-Monogamous Relationships
38:47Navigating Different Sexual Preferences
39:17Embracing Imperfection in Relationships
40:13Dealing with Jealousy
41:03Overcoming Negative Self-Stories
42:36Dispelling Shame and Blind Spots
43:09Trying Something Different
43:42The Importance of Play in Relationships
44:40Embracing Fun and Letting Go of Pressure
45:37Exploring and Learning from Sexual Experiences
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
58 episod
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