E05 How did we do it?? From Failed-Marriage Misery to Cosmic Sex, Hot-Tub Orgies and Play Parties in a Castle

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It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives.

We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus.

Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to communicate, trust and stand up for ourselves.

Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut sex party, and that’s fine – we’re not kink evangelists! We use stories from the fruity end of the spectrum to explore ideas that can empower everybody – singles and monogamous folks included.

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01:14 Introduction to The Episode

02:27 You Should Listen If...

02:51 Will's Journey: From Vanilla to Exploration

05:21 Finding Freedom and Rebirth through Love and Exploration

06:04 Chiara’s Transformation: from Catholic Roots to Kissing a Woman (!)

08:57 From Fantasy To Reality

10:56 Communicate Clearly Before Swinging!

12:52 “Sexperts” Night

14:40 Fun4Two: Our First Swingers Club

15:39 The Dark Room

18:29 "The Hot Tub Lady" Encounter

21:21 I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It

25:11 Allie's Life Adventure: from Small Town Girl to Adventurous Sex Lover

28:08 If We Cheat We Cheat Together

29:29 The Sexy Castle Adventure... Attempt

33:14 Sorry - I Already Came!

34:30 Swinging CAN Strengthen Relationships

39:59 How Swinging Environments Can Gift Body Confidence

41:24 How to Navigate the Swinging Scene

43:25 Is Swinging for Me?

45:44 Keeping the Spark Alive

51:02 The Hot Tub Story: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly

51:45 No Condom Asked

55:23 What We Learnt From Our Mistakes At Our First Swingers Club

56:19 Be Open! (To Listen AND To Communicate)

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

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