190. Grief, Emergence and Dating After Divorce with Wendy Sloneker

Dating After Divorce

Today's guest, Wendy Slonaker, is a grief and emergence coach. In this episode, she shares her transformative journey through the end of her marriages and her paths to her authentic identity.
Wendy talks about how she used Al-Anon, a 12-step program, to uncover her codependency issues and how she learned to love herself enough to enter a healthy relationship with her wife, Jennifer.
Wendy offers her take on using dating apps for self-discovery and personal growth. We dive into the importance of being intentional when dating and the lessons we learn from the people we connect with.
Featured on the Show: Wendy Sloneker

Wendy Sloneker is an Emergence Channel and Coach.

Wendy works with innovators, early adopters, and high achievers who are navigating any combination of the 40+ life events that can bring about grief, loss, heartbreak, resentment, or otherwise shadow seasons.

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1. Wendy's Divorce Journey (00:04:31)

2. Coming Out as a Lesbian (00:08:45)

3. The Stress Points that Cluster Around Divorce. (00:15:00)

4. The Importance of Understanding Frames of rRference in Relationships. (00:20:00)

5. Mistakes and Mismatches on the Dating Apps (00:23:49)

6. Creating a Relationship with Yourself (00:36:27)