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Transform Your Situationship Into a Relationship

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You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect or cooking for him a five course meal on the second date, because you want to show him that you are wifey material, even though he has never once reciprocated your energy.

So if you want someone to chase you, you have to treat them like a drug dealer treats their clients. You get them hooked and then you threaten to take it away -- Not with your words, but with your actions. Follow my 5 step guide, and they won't be able to get enough off you.

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TIMESTAMPS:

SEGMENT 1 - Let’s catch up! - 0:00 - 19:41

Catch up with me over my breakdown, guess the surprise guest for next week, hear what I’m doing this weekend, and my plans for next month, and why podcasting isn’t for everyone.

SEGMENT 2 - 5 step guide to a relationship - 19:42 - 50:07

How to go from a situationship to a guaranteed relationship in 5 simple steps.

SEGMENT 3 - Benson knows best - 50:22 - 1:04:347

In today's segment we cover your questions -

  • Is everyone in NY in an open marriage?
  • Why a situationship breakup can hurt more than a 5 year relationship breakup
  • Guys who barely text you during the week before your date
  • The correct timeline it should take you to move on from a heartbreak
  • Why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people
  • Natural Birth control and more!

Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! ✨

Today's episode was brought to you by:

  • NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team
  • Nutrafol - For 10$ off your first month’s subscription + free shipping - go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code ADULTING
  • Pretty Litter - Go to PrettyLitter.com/adulting and use code ADULTING to save 20% off on your first order + get a free cat toy.
  • Skims - Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt Shop at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. Be sure to let them know I sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select my show in the dropdown menu that follows.

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Kandungan disediakan oleh Violettta Benson and Violet Benson. Semua kandungan podcast termasuk episod, grafik dan perihalan podcast dimuat naik dan disediakan terus oleh Violettta Benson and Violet Benson atau rakan kongsi platform podcast mereka. Jika anda percaya seseorang menggunakan karya berhak cipta anda tanpa kebenaran anda, anda boleh mengikuti proses yang digariskan di sini https://ms.player.fm/legal.

You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect or cooking for him a five course meal on the second date, because you want to show him that you are wifey material, even though he has never once reciprocated your energy.

So if you want someone to chase you, you have to treat them like a drug dealer treats their clients. You get them hooked and then you threaten to take it away -- Not with your words, but with your actions. Follow my 5 step guide, and they won't be able to get enough off you.

For more weekly episodes + ad free episodes, subscribe to the premium podcast - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/

TIMESTAMPS:

SEGMENT 1 - Let’s catch up! - 0:00 - 19:41

Catch up with me over my breakdown, guess the surprise guest for next week, hear what I’m doing this weekend, and my plans for next month, and why podcasting isn’t for everyone.

SEGMENT 2 - 5 step guide to a relationship - 19:42 - 50:07

How to go from a situationship to a guaranteed relationship in 5 simple steps.

SEGMENT 3 - Benson knows best - 50:22 - 1:04:347

In today's segment we cover your questions -

  • Is everyone in NY in an open marriage?
  • Why a situationship breakup can hurt more than a 5 year relationship breakup
  • Guys who barely text you during the week before your date
  • The correct timeline it should take you to move on from a heartbreak
  • Why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people
  • Natural Birth control and more!

Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! ✨

Today's episode was brought to you by:

  • NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team
  • Nutrafol - For 10$ off your first month’s subscription + free shipping - go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code ADULTING
  • Pretty Litter - Go to PrettyLitter.com/adulting and use code ADULTING to save 20% off on your first order + get a free cat toy.
  • Skims - Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt Shop at SKIMS.com. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. Be sure to let them know I sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select my show in the dropdown menu that follows.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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