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Who is this podcast for? New leaders, people who don't see themselves as leaders, and leaders who want to become better leaders and better people in general. What is the podcast about? Redefining leadership through a lens that is fair to you. Why will you find this podcast valuable? It challenges listeners to think about leadership in different ways. Real leaders don't need a title, they live it. If you listen to this show, you will become a better leader by learning how to treat people, how ...
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All Relationships are not the same. However, there should be some similarities that are in each Relationship. The truth is we must work together to maintain them for the sake of the Relationship. Just like the powerful motor in a sports, there is something that drives the Relationship to be better. I don’t believe any Couple looks to be considered …
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A.J. Edds is the Vice President of Football Administration at the Big Ten Conference. He plays a central role in guiding the sport throughout the year – including communicating with internal conference colleagues as well as coaches and administrators at each institution. 1. Coaches who AJ admired over the years. Rick Wimmer (at Greenwood High Schoo…
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Becky Pany is the Senior Vice President of Sport Administration at the Big Ten Conference. She works closely with campus and conference partners to ensure that the conference offers a fair and robust sports experience. 1. Back injury that allowed Becky to serve as a student coach and ultimately an internship and role in the athletic department at I…
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Laura Anderson is the Chief Financial Officer and Treasurer at the Big Ten Conference. She draws from a rich diversity of professional and personal experiences to lead the conference through a period of rapid change. 1. Leaders who Laura has learned from. Empathy and concern for the team. Trust. 2. Her professional background. Accounting. “How to g…
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Kerry Kenny has worked at the Big Ten Conference for 17 years, holding multiple positions leading up to his current role as chief operating officer. In this role, he collaborates with the commissioner and many others in leading the conference through a rapid period of change. 1. Lessons learned playing basketball for Lafayette University. “I showed…
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Why should coaches work with compassion? How can they do it? 1. Coach’s perspective on coaching clinics and professional development. “It’s a collaboration of thought and ideas.” “You have to go there with intention on what you want to learn.” 2. The importance of storytelling in coaching. “We are telling stories to ourselves all the time…So storie…
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Practice is where teams come together and hone their ways of playing together. Coaches play a central role in creating effective practices. 1. When looking for players, what should we be looking for? Winners. What kind of record do they have and what role have they played in it? 2. “One of the great things about the Lakers and the Bulls teams was t…
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1. Mentors who were influential for Anil. 2. Early experiences in name, image and likeness. 3. Experiences as General Counsel at the University of Oklahoma. 4. “Always be curious.” 5. Responsibility of the General Counsel and Chief Legal Officer. 6. Working with diverse constituents on a daily basis. 7. What he looks for: People who get things done…
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Fred Krauss carries out a range of leadership roles as Director of Policy for the Big Ten Conference. He shared insights about how he collaborates with diverse partners in his everyday work. 1. A Master’s thesis on Monday Night Football. 2. Studying sports gamblers in Las Vegas on route to a Ph.D. 3. Going to Law School at night. 4. Sports Manageme…
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Tony Petitti leads the Big Ten Conference during a period of significant change in college athletics. We addressed a range of questions including: What are his daily routines? Who does he collaborate with? What is unmanaged change and how does Tony engage it? 1. Self-awareness in making the transition into his area of leadership. “The most importan…
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Coaches and leaders are charged with getting their teams to buy-in to the systems they’ll run together. How can coaches garner buy-in? 1. Reviewing metacognition. Ways to get there — reflection, feedback, mindfulness meditation, prayer. 2. Having unattached NBA coach give feedback and analysis of his team throughout the season. 3. Having a mentor o…
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Introduction: Good morning/afternoon everyone. Today, I want to talk about something fundamental to our lives: connecting in relationships. Whether it's family, friendships, romantic relationships, or professional networks, connection is at the heart of what makes relationships meaningful. In a world that seems more connected than ever through tech…
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Coach Jackson joined us to discuss how and why coaches should build self-awareness. Our weekly write-up on Metacognition. 1. “I always thought there was something more to basketball than basketball.” 2. Standing at the center circle before the start of practice. “When people come to the center circle, everything has to be in order.” 3. Metacognitio…
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This is another Episode that you will want to listen over and over again! Tony & Valerie interview the owners of Elephant in the Room Counseling Services, LLC. They are extremely good at helping Relationships to find the Better place within their Relationship. In this interview Tony & Valerie are going to ask some relevant questions to Ben & Vivian…
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In this Episode, Tony introduces a new voice to the Podcast. His new Co-Host is Valerie Miller, his wife! They have teamed up to bring us a very special. Episode. They come out of the gate talking about "Keeping the Flame Burning in Your Relationship. Often Relationships get old or they experience a distance. Part of the reason for the distance is …
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So often Men are accused of not paying attention to their significant other. For some Men, that could be a 24/7 job that Men very can't seem to keep straight. After all of the hoopla, they just decide to give up or at the very least go back to thinking the old way that we used to think. We stop trying to impress our Mates because it is too hard try…
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Tony Miller Sr., the Host of The Relationship Therapy Podcast is definitely a good listener. In his previous Episode, he mentioned that he had been receiving feedback from his listening audience about not talking about Singles enough. Well in this Episode he delivered what he promised. Tony interviewed his daughter Shana Miller. This was an interes…
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This is a different kind of Episode for the listening audience. Tony allows his wife Valerie to pop question after question that the listening audience have asked Tony through emails, text messages, or conversations. He is giving an inside look at the What, When, How, and Why's of the Relationship Therapy Podcast. Tony also spills the beans on who …
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It wasn't that long ago that you two were standing in front of the preacher sharing your vows with one another. You were announced as Husband & Wife. Everyone will remember the glorious wedding you had. Now it looks as though you both have forgotten about the for Better or Worse part of the vows. You are now half way to finalizing your divorce from…
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We all know that Relationships are extremely hard to maintain. It's even harder when you are trying to establish a new Relationship. Fresh & new Relationships struggle early as the Couple is getting to know each other. They are bound to have a few hiccups along the way. How the Couple handles these early battles will go a long way toward to find ou…
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It can be a daunting task trying to explain the mind of a man. Truth is, many Men would have some difficulty explaining themselves. Women have tried their best to get their significant other to share with them. It has done nothing but backed them into a corner with possibly more confusion than before. That seems to be the makeup of many Men. But th…
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As Tony begins Season 4, he starts out with a heavy subject that many of us may not truly be understanding of. How hard is it to Define LOVE! As Tony states in this Episode, often Couples have a hard time Defining what they call LOVE. In order for us to know what LOVE is, we probably need to be able to do more than verbalize it. I believe we all kn…
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Life has a funny way of producing its share of challenges! The same is especially true in Relationships. Not only does Relationships present its own challenges, but when it’s coupled with what life seems to automatically bring, this could be hazardous to the health of the Relationship. There are so many Relationships that will fall by the wayside b…
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At any moment an argument can burst on the scene in a Relationship. Words will be stated that could hurt and send the other Mate into a defensive mode where they start saying a few choice words to reciprocate the pain that is pulsating through them after the barrage of the heartbreaking words they received. The funny thing about everything I said i…
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We always can expect our Relationships to go through our ups and downs. But it is our response to our Mate after we have a disagreement that forces us to have an argument. In this Episode, Tony highlights what is almost inevitable in Relationships. That is arguing with your Mate! When you have people who are with each other in the same space for an…
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The reality of Relationships becomes even more real when you both begin to develop a strong Connection. It makes you and your Mate feel Better about your Relationship when this Connection keeps growing. Situations will arise that gives each of you a snapshot of how deep you two have become. In this Episode, Tony will give us some of the Signs of a …
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Coach Jackson and I were joined by Coach Sara Rohde, the multi-time state coach of the year and leader of three-time defending state champion Green Bay Notre Dame girls basketball program. 1. Sara’s background in education, coaching, and playing. 2. Sara’s system – rooted in man-to-man defense and motion offense. Fast-paced. 3. Work ethic, preparat…
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1. Reading your team when things are going well. Understanding them. “Getting out of their way.” Winning gets to be habitual. 2. The example of the Texas Rangers post-season run to the World Series championship. 3. Little inconveniences bringing a team together in new, deeper ways (hotel example in bad weather). Maintaining a positive orientation: …
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Tony continues in this Episode what he started in the previous Episode. He is asking some questions about Relationships that people really want answers to. In this Episode he goes a few steps deeper by asking some more thought provoking questions that we all believe need answering. A few of these questions Tony answers from his very own perspective…
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1. Why it’s important for coaches to take time to commemorate noteworthy holidays and occurrences. 2. Coach Pat Rice embracing systematic innovation in his football program. 3. Choice architecture—Behavioral economics and Coach Kelly Sheffield. 4. Developing a culture of experimentation. 5. Intellectual humility. 6. Finding the sweet spot between r…
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1. A recap of some topics we’ve covered in past weeks. 2. Circling back to the Shivas Irons quote on coaching as a “serious and solemn act.” 3. Being settled personally before being able to coach a group. 4. “You never can step in the same river twice…Every incident, every process, every relationship with a team is always new.” 5. Being flexible an…
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Have you ever had a question that you just can't seem to get out of your head? The longer you go without answering it the more it lingers in your mind. Well in this Episode, tony will take time to answer questions that he has received from people after starting The Relationship Therapy Podcast. He will not only present the questions, but he will al…
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Tony has done it again. He has given us another Episode that will make us think Not only about ourselves, but also about our Relationships. In this Episode he is talking about "Real Honesty in Relationships!" Every Couple is looking for that in their Relationship. The question is, do you have it, are you trending that way, or do you have a really l…
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It is true that we all Love a great Relationship! Also true is that we Love the feeling we get from one of those Healthy Relationships! The problem arises when we are not prepared for that type of Relationship. Often we enter Relationships not knowing what we want out of that Relationship. We see how others are doing while they are in theirs's, but…
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1. The seven pillars of Adams’ work. 2. The high value of the players. 3. The team’s 3-member security team. 4. Interactions and security training with players. 5. Game-day routines for Adam and his team. 6. Arena and event security. 7. How do you know what to communicate with whom? 8. Arena operations center. Unified command. Everyone’s in the sam…
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1. What characteristics in a leader facilitate voices being heard? Listening. Having a vision, seeing things that other people don’t see. “Look at not what a team is, but what they can become.” 2. Creating a safe environment where different perspectives will be respected and valued. 3. What’s made Joe better? Having children. “Give them a foundatio…
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1. What did he look for in putting together his staff when he was head coach in Portland? Complementarity. “A little bit of everything.” 2. Enjoying time with his staff in Portland. “The best part of my days were the coaches meetings. We enjoyed talking basketball and having a good time…The staff had a good blend of work ethic and sense of humor an…
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1. De-personalizing the feedback. Disassociating the person from the action when providing feedback. 2. Players can be offended and defensive when receiving feedback. The system is the overriding key. “This doesn’t fit into what we do as a group.” 3. “It goes beyond words.” Players physical responses matter. 4. When providing feedback, you’ve got t…
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1. How do you Put together your staff? Three “Cs”: Character. Values into action. Integrity. Doing the right thing. Competence. “You’ve got to know your stuff. That’s where you get credibility with the players.” We have to be great teachers now. Creativity. Keep players engaged. (and courage). 2. Competence. Finding specialists, those with expertis…
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1. Building data systems and models that inform decision-making. 2. Working with the GM, head coach, five analysts (draft, evals, tracking data, coaching support). 3. Tools of practice: R, Sequel, Python. 4. “As a group it’s important that the message we have is the same across the board. As a group we meet and discuss what are the pillars about wh…
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1. Daily and weekly routines with his staff. 2. Each player’s support team. Weekly reports. 3. “The number one thing with them is trust. That you know what you are doing and that you’re preparing them…There’s different layers of trust.” 4. Troy’s discussions of readiness with coaches and staff members. 5. Discussing player health and HIPPA. 6. Troy…
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1. Reaction to a student’s “turning point” experience. 2. There’s usually an incident every year when the coach steps in and gives guidance. 3. Why Coach Jackson spent a moment of reflection before each game. 4. How the Bulls embraced Scottie Pippen when he was going through a difficult family time. 5. “Non-action.” Not getting involved from an ego…
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1. How do young players’ paths differ in places like Serbia compared to the typical AAU player in the U.S.? 2. How do players work through their national teams and how do find or know where to look for these players? 3. How do players get into professional academies like Real Madrid? What implications does it have for these young players? 4. Overus…
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1. Impactful youth coaches. 2. Having an identical twin – a constant teammate. 3. Being named captain of his high school soccer team. 4. Values: Transparency. Directness. Hard work. Collaboration. Two-way engagement. Constructive growth. 5. Knowing people’s wants and needs. “What’s important to you?” 6. “It’s not a brain surgery industry.” There ha…
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All teams face the grind, the mundane, even the doldrums, throughout the course of their time together. How can coaches keep spirits up, and "even make the mundane sacred?” Coach Jackson and Professor Miller discussed: The responsibility that players have for playing. The coach can bring some fun and joy to the season. Times of the season that can …
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What does it mean to “have a system?” Why is it critical to build from the ground up? Ron Ekker — a longtime coaching colleague who developed “the Monk System.” Author of the Intelligent Coach. Having a system is not unique to basketball. It applies to most all sports (e.g., rowing). “It transcends basketball, no doubt about it." How Tex Winter use…
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The distribution of leadership. Getting a strong staff, getting to know each other. Trusting each other and giving everyone meaningful roles. The small room at the Chicago Bulls facility where Coach Jackson developed bonds with Coaches Bach and Winter. Three desks, two doors. Monitors. Scouting upcoming teams. Making videos with the video machine. …
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1. Coach’s home golf course in Williston, ND. 2. Giving players books: Why did he do it? How did he decide which book to give to each player. 3. Shaq’s book report. 4. Talking to Kobe about being a leader. 5. Going from coaching in the CBA to the Bulls, Jerry Krause wanted him to wear the championship ring as a symbol, “I knew what it took to win a…
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Tony finally was able to pin down a strong group of Men who have a lot to say about their Marriages. They will be sharing where they see themselves inside their Relationship. They don't mind sharing their thoughts & feelings with their Mates. Hopefully, this is going to help Men understand that it is okay to be exposed emotionally with their signif…
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