S5:E4 Birthmothers and Adoptees Healing Through Honest Conversations

Wandering Tree ®, LLC Podcast

The Wandering Tree Podcast is peeling back the layers of adoption narratives in a heartfelt roundtable featuring adoptees and birth mothers who are bravely sharing their stories. Join Jenny Becknell as she sheds light on the complexities of open adoption and Amy Seek as she reflects on her 24-year journey in the adoption world. Together with guests like Denise Palmer, Sharon Cummins, Elle Clausen, Suzanne Bachner and Dr. Liz DeBetta, we delve into the intricate tapestry of emotions—from regret to gratitude—that define the adoption experience.

We confront the powerful emotions and enduring trauma often faced by birth mothers, particularly those from the era of closed adoptions. Through personal stories, we expose the societal pressures and emotional challenges that shape the lives of both birth mothers and adoptees. We also examine the impact of terminology within the adoption system, questioning how words like "birth mom" or "given up" can inadvertently shape identity and self-worth.

By highlighting the invaluable support offered by organizations like the Celia Center, we aim to foster empathy and inspire change. Through honest conversations about trauma, memory, and relationship dynamics, we create a space for healing and hope. Our guests' stories emphasize the need for transparency and kindness in adoption practices, urging a shift towards preserving family connections and identities.

Let's embrace these stories of strength and vulnerability and acknowledge the profound impact adoption has on individuals, families, and communities.

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1. S5:E4 Birthmothers and Adoptees Healing Through Honest Conversations (00:00:00)

2. Adoption (00:00:28)

3. Regret, Blessing, and Family Relationships (00:17:55)

4. Unhealed Trauma of Birth Mothers (00:21:25)

5. Impacts of Adoption on Identities (00:27:39)

6. Exploring Adoption Language and Impact (00:42:08)

7. Exploring Adoptee Trauma and Memories (00:54:52)

8. Healing and Hopes in Adoption (01:03:37)

9. Empathy, Hope, and Change in Adoption (01:09:19)

10. Resilience and Gratitude in Adoption (01:18:06)