223: People Pleasers, You Don't Need to Apologize for Your Decisions

The Christian Mindset Coach with Alicia Michelle

As a recovering people pleaser, I know what it’s like to place my self-worth in how others view me. If you are looking for support with people pleasing, listen in as I talk about how to stop apologizing when you are making a decision, Bible verses that demonstrate how we should treat others, and aspects of Jesus’ life to remind us of who we ultimately answer to.

Over the next few weeks, I will also be helping you with mindset issues that pertain to perfectionism and overachieving. My hope is that you will start to see these patterns in your life and lean on God throughout the process of working through them. And if you want my support to help you stop people pleasing, check out the Christian Mindset Makeover!

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

[00:47] What you can expect in the next few episodes & a previous episode to help support you with self-confidence

[04:57] A sign of being a people pleaser

[06:22] What’s the connection between the Type 2 Enneagrams + people pleasers?

[08:20] Healthy ways to make decisions with respect

[10:46] 4 Bible verses on how to treat others

[16:16] What can Jesus’ interactions with others teach us about people pleasing?

[24:45] Using ADD (Acknowledge, Discern and Decide) to help you work through emotions behind people pleasing

[27:50] Reflection questions + an invitation to find help for people pleasing in the Christian Mindset Makeover

RESOURCES:

FREE WORKSHOP: How to Break Free from Feeling “Never Enough”

Christian Meditations for Daily Calm

YouTube Channel

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:

193: 6 Negative Self-Talk Phrases to Eliminate and Replace for More Self Confidence

FREE WORKSHOP: How to Break Free from Feeling “Never Enough”

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