1063: Building Brave: Supporting Your Child Through Anxiety and Fear

The Anxiety Coaches Podcast

In today's episode, Gina responds to a listener email with a new episode about anxiety in children. A number of suggestions are included for better understanding anxiety in children as well as steps that can be taken to reduce the anxiety and build strong, healthy psyches. Listen in for anxiety reducing tips that are easy to implement with children and are also highly applicable with adults!

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Quote:

Children are not things to be molded, but are people to be unfolded.

-Jess Lair

Chapters

0:23 Introduction to Child Anxiety Support

2:56 Understanding Anxiety in Children

8:06 Building Confidence Through Small Wins

12:35 Creating Predictable Routines

13:07 Grounding Techniques for Kids

19:22 Conclusion and Reflection

Summary

In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the vital topic of supporting children through their experiences of anxiety and fear, a discussion prompted by a heartfelt email from a listener. She shared her struggles with her six-year-old son, who faces anxiety in everyday situations like checking the mail or showering alone. By addressing the complexities of childhood anxiety, I aim to provide practical insights and strategies for parents and caregivers looking to nurture resilience and bravery in their children.

Understanding that anxiety is a normal emotion for everyone, especially young children, is fundamental in initiating this journey of support. I emphasize the importance of normalizing these feelings and recognizing that childhood anxiety often presents itself through fears of separation or abandonment. This acknowledgment is essential in reframing anxiety from a taboo topic to a shared human experience, which facilitates open discussions with children about their emotions.

Following this, I guide listeners through identifying potential triggers for anxiety, using our listener's situation as a concrete example. Exploring these triggers helps distinguish the underlying emotional patterns children may feel, enabling parents to offer reassurance that they are not alone in their fears. Gradual, supportive approaches, akin to what I refer to as "building brave," provide a framework for increasing a child's confidence and comfort over time, rather than forcing them into situations they are unprepared to handle.

I discuss actionable strategies for promoting self-assurance and independence in anxious children. By celebrating small wins—like showering with the door ajar—parents can reinforce the child's sense of accomplishment and boost their confidence. Additionally, encouraging decision-making in everyday scenarios allows children to experience the power of their choices, further cultivating their self-esteem.

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