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Episode 445: Staying at my first job and my coworker is insulting other departments
Manage episode 463400944 series 1314025
In this episode, Dave and Jamison answer these questions:
A listener named Kevin asks,
Hey, found the show and really enjoy it! Been listening from the beginning and have noticed that one of the pieces of advice given is that you should not stay at your first job for too long, because it’s more likely that you’ve not found the best job for you. I think The Secretary Problem is the closest thing being cited.
I tend to agree with the math, but I’m still at my first software engineering job after 5 years and don’t really want to leave. There are obviously things I don’t particularly like or people I find challenging, but for the most part, I work on interesting projects with smart people, it’s fully remote, the benefits are great, and my salary is comfortable. There have been times where I started to look for another job, only to have my current circumstances improve enough that I stopped the search.
What advice do you have for someone like me?
I don’t know if it’s relevant, but I’ve managed to get married, buy a house, and just recently had our first baby. The pressure to provide and be conservative with my career is building.
Again, love the show and I hope you’ll get to answering this before I catch up. I started from the beginning in late 2024, and in mid Jan 2025, I’m just past episode 50. I’ll let you do the math.
As a tech lead, I joined a project two years in the making which had only one engineer doing everything, including management. In the two years, only a POC has been completed and a “pre MVP-MVP” build is in progress. There is a hangup though, the funding for the project is supposed to come from another departments budget that doesn’t want it, and work was committed by the department I am in, and a third department intended to be completed by the end of the quarter.
I have been trying to finesse my teammate into cancelling the project or at least allow a resetting of expectations. My manager agrees with me. There seems to be a tug of war between AVPs and Directors. This has led my teammate to make some corporate aggressive comments. These are being directed in many directions, including department heads opposing the project.
In your professional space experience, how can I help my teammate with understanding that his tactics are potentially damaging to his reputation and the project?
451 episod
Manage episode 463400944 series 1314025
In this episode, Dave and Jamison answer these questions:
A listener named Kevin asks,
Hey, found the show and really enjoy it! Been listening from the beginning and have noticed that one of the pieces of advice given is that you should not stay at your first job for too long, because it’s more likely that you’ve not found the best job for you. I think The Secretary Problem is the closest thing being cited.
I tend to agree with the math, but I’m still at my first software engineering job after 5 years and don’t really want to leave. There are obviously things I don’t particularly like or people I find challenging, but for the most part, I work on interesting projects with smart people, it’s fully remote, the benefits are great, and my salary is comfortable. There have been times where I started to look for another job, only to have my current circumstances improve enough that I stopped the search.
What advice do you have for someone like me?
I don’t know if it’s relevant, but I’ve managed to get married, buy a house, and just recently had our first baby. The pressure to provide and be conservative with my career is building.
Again, love the show and I hope you’ll get to answering this before I catch up. I started from the beginning in late 2024, and in mid Jan 2025, I’m just past episode 50. I’ll let you do the math.
As a tech lead, I joined a project two years in the making which had only one engineer doing everything, including management. In the two years, only a POC has been completed and a “pre MVP-MVP” build is in progress. There is a hangup though, the funding for the project is supposed to come from another departments budget that doesn’t want it, and work was committed by the department I am in, and a third department intended to be completed by the end of the quarter.
I have been trying to finesse my teammate into cancelling the project or at least allow a resetting of expectations. My manager agrees with me. There seems to be a tug of war between AVPs and Directors. This has led my teammate to make some corporate aggressive comments. These are being directed in many directions, including department heads opposing the project.
In your professional space experience, how can I help my teammate with understanding that his tactics are potentially damaging to his reputation and the project?
451 episod
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1 Episode 449: My tech lead ignored my warnings and I don't know what my leadership style is 29:54

1 Episode 448: Title over salary and from figure skater to software developer 28:01

1 Episode 447: Overleveled at FAANG and accidental draft feedback 30:11

1 Episode 446: Wading through AI slop and they don't get git 33:19

1 Episode 445: Staying at my first job and my coworker is insulting other departments 26:23

1 Episode 444: Surrounded by apathetic coworkers and put it on my resume? 31:10

1 Episode 443: Does my PM hate me? and My coworker has anxiety when I help 36:26

1 Episode 442: Improving communication skills and how to break my job hopping habit 31:45

1 Episode 441: Will working in healthcare hurt my reputation and precious wisdom 22:53

1 Episode 440: How do I help my boss not burn out and should I tell people I'm older than I am? 37:24

1 Episode 439: Harried VP of Eng and first startup job 23:20

1 Episode 438: Software job after prison and working 60 hours per week at age 20 and feeling unfulfilled 42:25

1 Episode 437: My company canceled all one-on-ones and moving to a single backlog 30:29

1 Episode 436: Paralyzed by checkboxes and I'm on a "must keep happy" list 33:34
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