Jacob O’Neill: Brotherhood, Intimacy & Legacy - Ep66
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Jacob O’Neil is a men's leadership coach & the Founder of The Gathering of Men. It’s his mission to create safe spaces for men to feel and process whatever is holding them back from creating a truly fulfilling and beautiful life. Filled with meaningful work, passionate relationships, and deep connection with their higher self.
What you will learn:
- Why men need brotherhood to thrive in relationship
- How to create the a dream relationship dynamic
- How to unlock deep intimacy in a relationship
- How to deal with triggers in a relationship?
- What is Tantra?
- How to reignite the passion in a relationship
- How to become the best lover inside & outside the bedroom
- What does creating a Legacy mean?
- How our culture sets relationships up to fail
Shownotes:
- 0:00 Introduction
- 3:05 What is Brotherhood?
- 9:55 Why is receiving unconditionally so important to self-worth (Brotherhood Vs Relationships)
- 12:14 The Impact of Brotherhood on Intimacy in Relationships
- 18:15 Can you receive too much Love in relationships (We have a Love threshold)?
- 31:27 What’s the one thing you don’t trust anyone else in your life to do?
- 36:24 Being exposed to ‘Tantra’ changed everything
- 38:20 My capacity of receiving has had a massive impact on my long-term relationships
- 40:45 Do you trust women? (This has a major effect on your Legacy)
- 45:25 What does having a Legacy mean?
- 48:00 Why do I call my wife the ‘Lover’?
- 52:00 We are not equal as people & as genders
- 54:00 How to embrace the ‘Lover’ dynamic more?
- 58:50 Abandoning the 50-50 scorecard
- 1:02:00 The importance of space in a relationship
- 1:05:00 The role of integrity in an intimate relationship
- 1:09:40 Where to find Jacob
- 1:14:44 What is the most valuable lesson you’ve learned?
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1. Introduction (00:00:00)
2. What is Brotherhood? (00:03:05)
3. Why is receiving unconditionally so important to self-worth (Brotherhood Vs Relationships) (00:09:55)
4. The Impact of Brotherhood on Intimacy in Relationships (00:12:14)
5. Can you receive too much Love in relationships (We have a Love threshold)? (00:18:15)
6. What’s the one thing you don’t trust anyone else in your life to do? (00:31:27)
7. Being exposed to ‘Tantra’ changed everything (00:36:24)
8. My capacity of receiving has had a massive impact on my long-term relationships (00:38:20)
9. Do you trust women? (This has a major effect on your Legacy) (00:40:45)
10. What does having a Legacy mean? (00:45:25)
11. Why do I call my wife the ‘Lover’? (00:48:00)
12. We are not equal as people & as genders (00:52:00)
13. How to embrace the ‘Lover’ dynamic more? (00:54:00)
14. Abandoning the 50-50 scorecard (00:58:50)
15. The importance of space in a relationship (01:02:00)
16. The role of integrity in an intimate relationship (01:05:00)
17. Where to find Jacob (01:09:40)
18. What is the most valuable lesson you’ve learned? (01:14:44)
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