How to be CHARISMATIC in Group Conversations

New Views with Ariel Niu

Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others.

BOOK COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Improve your social presence, delivery, and influences on others.

Study Notes:

- INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sarah?'), while having moments dropping questions and small statements to the rest of the group throughout (e.g. 'Honolulu? Amazing! Have you guys been?' 'Check out North Shore Sarah...guys, this place is beautiful. Sarah, I'll give you all the recommendations.')

- Mastery is seamless flow from talking to the individual, to group, back to individual while maintaining full presence and ease with everyone.

- QUESTIONS/PLAYFUL STATEMENTS: end your point/story with a question or a playful statement back to the group to reduce awkward silences.

- SIDE COMMENTS: if you don't want full spotlight but want to be involved, be fully present in the conversations and confidently add reassuring or cheeky comments to others' stories.

- UTILIZE SILENCE: instead of fearing or thinking about the silence, utilize it. Use silent moments to breathe and regulate, come back within yourself fully. This practice will allow new thoughts and flow to naturally arise.

0:00 Individual-Group Flow

2:02 Questions/Playful Statements

3:32 Reassuring/Cheeky Comments

7:19 Utilizing Silence

10:29 Confidence/Charisma Balance

11:26 More Resources

CONNECT:

Book Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu

Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu

WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS drops APRIL 2024 - https://beacons.ai/niu.views/email

Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships

Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views

TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views

Partnerships/Inquiries - [e-mail]

ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.

#charisma #confidence #networking #selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #relationships #lifehacks #socialskills #socialanxiety #niuviews