Porn Addiction in Marriage Pt 3: the Spouse's Perspective

Marriage Lab

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Laughter echoes through even our most challenging times, and this episode kicks off with a tale from a men's retreat that'll have you chuckling along with us. But as our conversation turns, we confront the shadows within marriage—specifically, the silent struggle of porn addiction. We open up about the emotional toll this addiction takes on the non-addicted spouse, illustrating the journey through feelings of betrayal to finding a path towards healing and understanding within the relationship.
Navigating the murky waters of shame and betrayal requires a delicate touch, and this episode doesn't shy away from the tough discussions. We explore the necessity of validating a hurt partner's feelings and the potential harm in concealing pain. Sharing our perspective, we stress the importance of choosing confidants wisely—those who can offer wisdom and hope—while avoiding the pitfalls of codependency and learning to let go of the illusion of control, allowing for true healing to begin.
Wrapping up, we impart strategies for coping with addiction within a marriage, focusing on the need for personal accountability and external support systems rather than relying solely on a partner for recovery. We dissect the complexities of the recovery journey, advocating for realistic expectations and personal peace regardless of a partner's progress. This episode isn't just about sharing our own experiences—it's about offering hope and practical advice for those walking this tough road alongside us.
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• Couples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health Coaching

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1. Porn Addiction in Marriage Pt 3: the Spouse's Perspective (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Spousal Perspective on Porn Addiction (00:00:06)

3. Navigating Spousal Betrayal and Shame (00:10:31)

4. Letting Go of Control for Healing (00:18:10)

5. Navigating the Role of Sobriety Coach (00:23:56)

6. Navigating Spouse's Addiction Recovery With Hope (00:27:35)

7. 12-Week Online Porn Recovery Program (00:37:01)