Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage - Interview Thais Gibson

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Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage -

Interview Thais Gibson

Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast. Have you ever self sabotaged? Are you aware of your own limiting beliefs?

Today, Thais Gibson, the founder of the Personal Development School and I are going to talk in detail - get schooled on these topics. This is really cool to get to talk with Thais about this because this Ph.D. candidate has a decade of experience helping over 30K clients, and her private practice has a 2 year waiting list, so getting to have this one-on-one class discussion with her is lit.

Tune into the audio program to start dissecting self sabotage and limiting beliefs with the head teacher from the Personal Development School.

Thais Gibson - is certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, in Neuro-linguistic programming, in Somatic experiencing (which is a form of therapy aimed at treating trauma and stress related disorders) She has certificates in a bunch of other therapy and self development disciplines as well…13 in total I believe… and she has 38 million views on social media. I started following her on Instagram and it’s fun to watch her great educational clips as she discusses mental health ideas. Thais….Let’s bring that to my audience.

Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast Thais….

Join us on the audio to hear our conversation about:

How did you get into this work? - What’s your story?
Can we talk about self sabotage? What does that look like? What do you know about it?
What do we need to know to keep ourselves from doing it?
Do you have success stories that show us how to overcome this?
I’ve been trying to recognize my own limiting beliefs. How do we discover what our limiting beliefs are?
What do we do with them once we recognize them? Those are hard things to change, usually really ironed in strong with our subconscious.
Let’s talk about the subconscious…how do we reprogram deeply help beliefs that are holding us back? Do you have success stories about this?
Tell us about the school and what you do there?

Thanks for being her with us today. I hope you’ve found just one ah-ha or idea that helps you on your journey, or inspires you to reach out to Thais, or follow her on Instagram so you can keep learning to navigate your mental health.

How to contact Thais Gibson:

She's big on Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

You Tube: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

Facebook: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

Have fun building your best life story on purpose!

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Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage - Interview Thais Gibson

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Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage -

Interview Thais Gibson

Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast. Have you ever self sabotaged? Are you aware of your own limiting beliefs?

Tune into the audio program to start dissecting self sabotage and limiting beliefs with the head teacher from the Personal Development School.

Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast Thais….

Join us on the audio to hear our conversation about:

How did you get into this work? - What’s your story?
Can we talk about self sabotage? What does that look like? What do you know about it?
What do we need to know to keep ourselves from doing it?
Do you have success stories that show us how to overcome this?
I’ve been trying to recognize my own limiting beliefs. How do we discover what our limiting beliefs are?
What do we do with them once we recognize them? Those are hard things to change, usually really ironed in strong with our subconscious.
Let’s talk about the subconscious…how do we reprogram deeply help beliefs that are holding us back? Do you have success stories about this?
Tell us about the school and what you do there?

How to contact Thais Gibson:

She's big on Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

You Tube: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

Facebook: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

Have fun building your best life story on purpose!

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Episode 277: Tips for Successfully Parenting Adult Children: Interview - Emily and Erik Orton How to get a Seat on your Adult Kids’ Board of Directors. Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast! I’m your host Lori Lee and today we are talking about the complexity and balance of interacting with and influencing our adult children. My guests today are Emily and Erik Orton, You’ll remember them from Episode 133 - Seven at Sea, where we talked about the year they took their 5 kids and lived on a sail boat.This was one of my all-time favorite episodes because I so loved the things Erik and Emily shared. I’m very excited to have them back on the show! But I’m also excited because I’m personally having a hard time getting on the board of directors for my adult kids - or in other words, I’m not having a great deal of success having any influence with my adult children. How do they still think I have nothing to share with them….???? What am I doing wrong? Stay tuned as we get to talk shop with Erik and Emily as they share their expertise they have developed and share through their business The Awesome Factory. Erik + Emily Orton - Erik is an Emmy Award-winning writer and producer. Emily is an educator, author and public speaker. Their life design framework mutes fear and accelerates growth. They are parents to five kids raised in Manhattan, where Erik worked on such shows as Wicked, Les Miserables and The Phantom of the Opera. When their kids were 6-16 years old, Erik and Emily bootstrapped life aboard a fixer upper sailboat in the Caribbean. They sailed as a family from St. Martin back to New York City. Their memoir about the experience (Seven at Sea) is a New York Times Top 10 Travel book. After life on the boat, they continued to travel the world with their children through Europe, the South Pacific, Africa, and across North and South America in planes, trains, boats and vans. They are the co-founders of The Awesome Factory, a coaching and travel adventure company that leads retreats and sailing adventures all over the world. Emily and Erik - Welcome back to Love Your Story! TUNE INTO THE AUDIO DISCUSSION TO HEAR THE THOUGHTS ON THESE AND OTHER IDEAS: Lets start with your story. That introduction gave everyone a super quick look at the adventures of your past decade, but I’d love to have you share some of the highlights you’ve had with your family - particularly those that have helped you build relationship with them in a way that they now give you a place on their board of directors. You coach and direct a great deal regarding empty nesters and dealing with adult children. How did you metamorphose into this space of expertise? Let’s jump right in - I attended an entire evening presentation on this topic, with you, so I know there is lots to talk about. How do we get on our adult kids’ board of directors? What kinds of things do you have coming up and where can people find you? Finding the Ortons: Here is the link to The 100 Year Grid: https://www.theawesomefactory.nyc/100 They tell all about how to use it in episode 18 of their podcast - What Could Go Right? The 100 Year Grid – How to Visualize Your Whole Life on 1 Sheet of Paper https://youtu.be/YWYKl6Y7-E4?si=Ay4x3aXw9Cs_WJNx Their Podcast: What Could Go Right Their Website: https://www.theawesomefactory.nyc Thanks for being with us today. Please share this episode with someone who has adult kids and let’s share the love of helping one another navigate the tough stuff. Join us in two weeks for our Quick Chat - one inspirational idea in 15 minutes or less and have a great week creating your life with intention.…

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Episode 276: Quick Chat: The Power of "I AM" Statements - How to Shift Everything 12:06

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Episode 276: Quick Chat: The Power of "I AM" Statements - How to Shift Everything Welcome to the LYS podcast. Today is a Quick Chat - 1 inspirational idea in 15 minutes or less. We are talking about I AM Statements and being creators. (insert applause reel) The other day I was listening to Oprah’s Super Soul podcast and her interview with pastor Joel Osteen a pastor from Houston, TX that is a very popular up and coming pastor. It aired on Sept 20 2022 if you want to catch it. They were talking about how you become what you believe. And, what we believe is what we tell ourselves - so the whole show was about the power of the statement “I AM” And of course, this is the same thing as…..what story am I telling myself about myself. Today we’re talking about I AM statements, stay tuned and let’s reprogram any mean lingering voices. People - IT COMES DOWN TO THE SIMPLE THINGS. My son and I think about the world differently. He tries to unwind the mysteries of the universe. The other day he was incredibly excited because he found a scientific video showing how eternal life could happen scientifically. He showed it to all of us - thrilled to have found something that made sense to him, but it wasn’t striking home for me. I thought about our different approaches to life. As we’ve discussed things over the past year, I’ve realized that complication drives him, but for me when I am trying to learn or comprehend or progress, I love simple. I have found that in my religion, in my way of being, in my growth patterns I love simple tools or simple concepts to focus on.. For example. Instead of looking at the entire doctrinal cannon of my church and feeling frustrated that I’m not good at all of it. I love just working on love. Sometimes I’m good at it and sometimes I’m not, but I know if I get that down or even make progress on it, that it’s one of the things God tells us is most important. And, love really bleeds into everything, forgiveness, healthy self-love, charity, service, etc. So there is plenty to do, but instead of living in overwhelm I work on love. So, I mention this because the “I AM” statements are such a simple way to realize how you are setting the tone for your life. It starts when you wake up in the morning. Start with gratitude - I am grateful for…..there is always something - hot water, a warm bed, health, a good friend, my dog, a great sweater, my kids…… Train yourself. Open your eyes and say thank you or I’ve got this, or I AM confident, I am creative, I am disciplined, I am focused. What is the difference in the start of your day if you start with: I’m fat, I’m not attractive, I’m unlucky, I’m a bad parent, I’m not enough, I’m so tired, I’m not worthy….vs. I’m grateful, I’m all over this, I’m excited to see what happens today, I’m making this a great day, I am going to have some great interactions today. I’m getting healthier everyday. For me - those two create completely different days! Completely different. Paster Joel say, “Whatever follows “I Am” will come looking for you.” - What do you think of that idea? If you get to choose what chases you down in the world - well, then I’m inspired to put some good things out there because that’s what I want chasing me. Your life is how you see it - that is a fact. So talk a second and thing about what follows “I AM” for you? If you want to know where you’ll be in 5 years, stop and pay attention to what follows “I AM” in your own mind…. So let’s talk about how we shift these…. You don’t have to go to the extreme when changing these. Oprah shared an example of a day she was really tired. As she kept saying “I’m so tired” she got more and more tired. Then she caught herself and she knew she couldn’t say “I’m energized” because she wasn’t, but she could say “I’m looking forward to getting my second wind.” We can’t lie to ourselves, because well….we know we are lying, but we don’t have to go from one extreme to another. Let’s just swap the direction we’re looking - do a 180, and take steps toward the light - toward the more supportive I AM. When you say “I’m beautiful” you invite a beauty mindset in. It’s not magic, but our words change our self image. When we spend all day saying, “I am confident, I am focused, I am creative, I’m disciplined, I’m blessed, I’m talented, I’m valuable….that’s doing something on the inside of us. When we hear ourselves saying that and we begin thinking it, we empower ourselves to shift into much more positive energy. And that positive energy changes everything. Powerful truths here - it not only changes our self perception but it changes what we attract, it changes how we show up in the world. And that dominoes our success our relationships our progress what we attract into our world. Drop the Mic!! Even when we are in dark spots….instead of focusing on the dark, focus on the sun that’s above the clouds. The sun is still there and I’ll see it again. I Am Statements - It’s a simple idea - like I said, I like simple. But not only is it simple, it’s true, it’s powerful, and it’s about creating. It’s about you being a creator of your life. God is a creator, you are a creator in training. I AM statements are the magic words for creating the mindset that creates the energy that creates the YOU. Thanks for being here today for this quick chat. I challenge you to start paying attention to the I AM statements going on in your mind and shift them one at a time. Share this episode with one person you love - because we all need to be doing this work. And we’ll see you in two weeks for the next episode of the Love Your Story podcast.…

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Episode 275: Everything They Never Taught Us in School about Money - Interview Kristen Wonch 33:36

34 weeks ago33:36

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Episode 275: Everything They Never Taught Us in School about Money - Interview Kristen Wonch Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast. I’m your host Lori Lee. Last year one of the favorite episodes was my interview with Dr. Amanda the money doctor. Money is a really big part of our lives, so of course people want to learn and de-mistify how to get it, how to grow it, how to remove blocks to it. So 2024 delivers as well. Today Kristen Wonch, a wizard with numbers and one of a handful of women to land a highly coveted role of structuring multi million dollar deals as a commodities trader, is here on the show to talk with us about choosing with intention the life we want and then building the numbers around it. Her Money Mastery Method is the world’s first to teach women to master the art of earning efficiently, spending smart and investing intentionally, while rewiring subconscious money beliefs from the ground up. That’s all big stuff. So, stay tuned and get richer. Kristien - Welcome to the LYS Podcast Join us on the audio to listen to our discussion on topics like: You went from $100,000 in debt to being a global money coach. Can we start with your story about how you turned that around? Let’s talk about creating our life on purpose - money is often a big part of that. How do you coach someone through this process? What about this process where you determine the life you desire and then build the numbers around it? What is an unbudget? Let’s talk money blocks. How do you figure out if you have money blocks and what they are? What do you do with them once you’ve identified them? What are the top 3 things you advise women to do in their financial lives? Find Kristen Wonch at: Free Investor Secrets Revealed Workshop: https://www.kristenwonch.com/investor-secrets Kristen@kristenwonch.com 1.📈 Book your free Breakthrough Call 2.💰 Get my Financial Freedom Checklist 3.🎙 Listen to The Wealth Equation Podcast If you enjoyed this podcast you’ll love the book I wrote - It’s called LIFE - Living Intentional and Fearless Everyday. A guide with 21 challenges that help you create connection, possibility and self care in your life. It’s all about a guide to helping you live bigger. Grab your coy on Amazon and maybe even pick up a copy for a friend and do the challenges together. I hope you found something fabulous to take into your life in today’s show. Join us in two weeks for our next episode and keep living YOUR life YOUR way.…

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Episode 274: Quick Chat - Every Problem is a Thought Problem 13:39

36 weeks ago13:39

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Episode 274: Quick Chat - Every Problem is a Thought Problem Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast. I’m your host Lori Lee and today you are here for a Quick Chat - that’s one inspirational idea in 15 minutes or less. Today chat is: Every Problem is a thought problem. It’s a bold statement. But a true one. And one that sets us free. One that puts us in control, most of the time. So stay tuned as we discuss how much power ACTUALLY have, and how to solve the problems. Since you are a listener of the Love Your Story podcast I’m going to make the assumption that we are on the same page on the topic of taking responsibility for the pivotal role our thoughts play in shaping our realities. Basically - our thoughts OR stories that we create in our minds create our realities - are we on the same page there? There are 7 Billion realities going on out there… Ok. With that said, I want to start out with the quote by Byron Katie. She says, “It’s not the problem that causes our suffering; it’s our thinking about the problem.” In other words, “Every problem is a thought problem.” Let’s put me in the hot seat. 2023 was a rough year for Realtors and lenders. The higher interest rates meant that for a great many of us the clients buying and selling slowed down. I primarily blamed my slow year on this situation, but here’s another angle - a slower year allowed me to travel more. It gave me more time to reach out and renew and develop relationships with my data base - my past clients. Which part do I want to focus on? Was it a problem or an opportunity? Problems don’t have to stay problems, they can become opportunities if we choose to shift our thoughts. In the realm of personal development and self reflection this idea invites us to scrutinize the nature of our challenges by recognizing the subjective nature of them. By understanding and claiming that situations and ideas only hold the power we allow them to hold. Another example - if I come from a family where being a part of a certain religion is tantamount to being right with God and the world, then if I step away from that religion my social construct - family, friends, and members of that congregation may collapse around me, or cause people pain. On the other hand, if there is an acceptance among those people that everyone find their own way in the world, in a way that each individual feels is best for them, then the suffering ceases to happen. Or, if respect is really important to me, as it is to most type A personalities and I am disrespected, I will/can feel a lot of resentment, anger, frustration, maybe even embarrassment about this, whereas someone for whom that is not an important thing may hardly notice it, or may not feel disrespected in a similar situation. In other words - situations are subjective. Problems are subjective. My mother used to get really upset when her family parties didn’t unfold as she had expected - her expectations weren’t met and she’d often cry before the night was through - she learned to let go of those expectations and go with the flow as the years went by, but this is a good example of a person creating pain for themselves and then learning how to adjust their thoughts in a way that created less pain for them. Now let’s combine this with the idea that “ everything happens for me , not to me.” With the combination of these two ideas a powerful shift occurs. A shift that can redefine the way we navigate life’s complexities. Katie’s assertion is that our thoughts about our circumstances themselves contribute more to our issues than do the circumstances themselves. This is an important thing to realize because when we internalize the belief that problems are, at their core, rooted in thought patterns, then we gain agency over our responses which helps us with resiliency and adaptability. And when we get good at recognizing the stories we have naturally created about an event, and we transition into looking at other ways we could interpret or shift that story or thought, then we become powerful! We become the thought shifters that move us toward our own happiness. When/if you adopt the idea that the things that happen in our lives are happening for our well being - happening “for” us, not “to” us, we start embracing a narrative tool that allows us to view challenges as opportunities for self-discover, for growth, for development, rather than being a victim. P O W E R F U L This is the mindset that allows us to step out of victimhood. Jeffry R. Holland, apostle in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints said, “To anybody struggling today, I say: Be hopeful, be happy and smile. Remember that God is on your side. He is not an angry, vicious God trying to trip you. He is for you - not against you. He is your Father. He is anxious to do everything possible to bless you.” When I started my graduate work back in 2013 I was biting off a lot. I was working full time, driving an hour and a half up to Utah State University to teach every day and to take my own classes. I was grading student papers and was a single mom of 2 teenagers. I was very determined and excited, and I remember on my drive up, the first day of class, the thoughts that were crossing my mind were very distrustful of God. After a while of fearful thoughts like “he’s just waiting for me to make a mistake,” I realized what I was doing. I don’t know why my thoughts naturally went to a god who was waiting to make things hard on me, but I remember the exact moment when the thought pushed through - he is for you, not against you. He is your cheerleader. He’ll help you succeed in the ways you want to succeed. He’ll help you do this. At that thought my entire body changed. The tension left, the relief flooded in. The moment was very profound for me. Two tools I want to leave with you today: All problems are thought problems, so when you’re having a difficult time with something, take a minute to look at the stories (not that your stories are wrong, they are just creating your reality and your emotion around things.) and consider what you can shift or let go of that will change that suffering, that will allow you to proceed in peace. When you embrace the idea that things are happening for me - you gain the powerful, supportive mindset that challenges are intricately woven into the fabric of personal evolution and we can extract meaning and growth from all these spaces. This mindset transcends the dichotomy of positive and negative experiences, weaving a narrative where each moment - good and bad, contributes to the tapestry - the intricate and beautiful design of our lives. Let me also add, that in practice, embracing this idea also plants seeds for gratitude. It plants seeds of resilience during hard times because we can find solace and purpose in the adversity. As we close up this quick chat I invite you - I challenge you, to examine the role of your thoughts in regard to your suffering, in regard to your subjective interpretation of the world around you, in regard to your challenges. See if you’re feeling like a victim and what needs to change so you can take responsibily for your own role in your suffering. I hear you…your saying….but he did cheat on me, that’s a fact, and under no circumstances is that ok. All true, perhaps. But if you stay in the victim role about how you were done wrong so you have an excuse for no functioning well, for being bitter, then you’ve missed your own power. Those things can be true, but you can focus on the fact that now that person who wasn’t doing right by you is out of your life, or you can tune into the understanding you have of others who have gone through this. You can learn about yourself and what part you played, she what’s behind that door…. But my dad didn’t make me feel loved so I have every right to ignore him, cop an attitude, be disrespectful. Dads are “supposed” to do XYZ. Well, take that apart. Your shoving him away isn’t helping build a relationship. Did you try to communicate with him in loving ways? What did you do to try and build relationship? Love begets love. Let’s problem solve here instead of blaming and wallowing. Then, take the “everything happens FOR me” mindset and insert it into these spaces and see what shifts for you. Try this over and over. It will change your world. How is the challenge before you FOR you? The other day I was digging my heels in about letting a couple people into my life that I have no desire to be around. I try to stay in a space of higher vibe people, I try to put up boundaries to people I feel are unhealthy. Well, these folks that I needed to forgive and consider softening toward were right in my face and I wanted nothing to do with it, but I was writing this and so I went to HOW IS THIS FOR ME? It was easy - this was an opportunity for me to learn to love better. This was an opportunity for me to work on forgiving, letting go, kindness. Still working it through, but it definitely changes the mindset. Thanks for tuning in for this quick chat about one very powerful idea. I hope you’ll use it as you embrace your power over your own reality. Please share this episode with at least one person you love and have a great couple weeks creating your life on purpose and creating a story you love. See you soon for the next episode of the Love Your Story podcast.…

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Episode 273: The Road to More Confidence - Interview Christina Lecuyer 29:55

38 weeks ago29:55

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Episode 273: The Road to More Confidence - Interview Christina Lecuyer Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast, I’m your host Lori Lee. Have you ever met someone that brimmed with confidence? I can tell you that there is an energy behind confidence. There is a way you hold yourself, a mindset of expectation that doors will open for you, a presence that actually opens those doors. There are so many powerful concepts - gratitude, love, allowing, accountability - but today we’re talking about confidence. I’m excited about this because we haven’t talked about confidence before, been coached in confidence before and WE DON’T WANT TO SHORT CHANGE THIS INCREDIBLE MINDSET. Today I have Chrstina Lecuyer on the show - Voted one of the top Confidence coaches, this former professional golfer and TV host now works with an extensive ist of cientele from around the world. . Tune into the audio program for a little coaching. What does confidence look like? How do we get it if we don’t have it? Where do we start and how do we use it? Confidence is defined as a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. Our guest today - Christina, battled low self-confidence, an eating disorder, and tying her worth to external validation, Christina was able to turn her life around to create her dream life and a multi six figure business. She uses the same tools she used for herself to help hundreds of clients to create their own profit and success. Through her signature “Decision, Faith & Action” framework clients have not only brought their own dream life into reality, but many have gone on to create multi six and seven figure businesses in the process. I guess we can tie confidence in ourselves to success in business, but I think it propeturates success in all areas of our lives. Let’s see what Christina says. Join the audio to hear our conversation about: Christina's story: Who were you when you were battling with this low self-esteem and what caused the eating disorder, and how did you evolve and transition out of that? Let’s talk about why confidence is important. Isn’t this a topic almost everyone could use a little coaching in? If you don’t feel confident in yourself? If you’re one of those who hugs the walls, or doesn’t risk, or prays nothing bad will happen because you may crumble under it….how do you start to step into more confidence? Maybe give us a little coaching here: What are some of the stories of people you’ve coached, some of the transformations you’ve seen? To find Christina: christina@christinalecuyer.com www.christinalecuyer.com 1 on 1 Confidence coaching - You're One Decision Away from the Life of your Dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt said, “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” I share this quote because if you haven’t stopped to consider all the tough stuff you’ve navigated, do. Stop and think about it, and realize that when the tough stuff comes along, you make it through. You’ve done it before, you can do it again. This recognition builds confidence in our resiliency, which helps us live with less fear. And one more quote: Dale Carnegie said, “Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” I share this one because of it’s truth also - when we step outside our comfort zone, our comfort zone expands. It expands because we are engaging with life, we are making things happen, we are learning that we can step out and do. I hope as you go about your day that you’ll stand a little taller, shoulders back, that you’ll call on 20 seconds of bravery and push your comfort zone when you come up against those walls. Know that you are unique, beautiful, and your belief in yourself will be the vehicle that moves your world. Please share this episode with someone you love….or even like a little. We’ll see you in two weeks for a Quick Chat.…

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Episode 272: What God Can Do with Loss - Interview Nicole Holgreen 40:21

40 weeks ago40:21

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Episode 272: What God Can Do with Loss Interview Nicole Holgreen Bridle Up Hope Every once in awhile I run across a story with lots of miracles. Stories, where for some reason, God, the Universe, Fate seems to really be backing up a person or a project. Today we are looking at one of those. We’re going to sit around this technological camp fire and listen to a story about how a young girl passing away from depression created a program that’s backed by miracles. We’re talking with Nicole Holgreen, the executive director of Bridal Up Hope out of Alpine, Utah, a Rachel Covey Foundation. Tune into the audio to hear how this foundation that was created after Rachel Covey’s suicide, to support the mental health of girls and women through equine assisted learning - yes - hanging out with horses - how this program finds itself in “ a tidal wave of miracles.” This is a story of depression and support. It’s a story about the bond between a girl and her horse and it’s a story about hope, healing scars, transformation and miracles in a time when we sorely need them. Nicole Holgreen is the Executive Director of Bridle Up Hope. She has led an incredible team to expand this organization and its mission to 13 locations worldwide. Nicole oversees the Alpine, Utah Headquarters and the 100 weekly lessons for women and girls here. Nicole is devoted to Bridle Up Hopes's mission to inspire hope, confidence, and resilience through equestrian training and The 7 Habits written by Stephen Covey. Nicole is a Provo, UT. girl and she and her husband Jared have four children and one grandson. Nicole - Welcome to the LYS Podcast Join us on the audio program to hear our conversation about: I want stories - when you and I were talking awhile back we filled a couple hours with stories of the miracles that have supported Bridle Up Hope in it’s opening to the world, and even that supported getting you here. Nicole shares her story - Where were you in life when you started crossing paths with Bridle Up Hope? Can I get some specific miracle stories - the ones that stand out to you - that have made Bridal Up Hope possible. Let’s talk about the girls and women that have come here. How many do you serve? Can you share some of your favorite success stories? How have you watched them become empowered? Let’s talk about Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits. What are they and how do they help the girls and women What do you see for the future of Bridle Up Hope? If someone wants to come to you for service where do they find you OR If someone wants to open a location on their own property - help expand this 1000 barn goal, who do they contact? Nicole Holgreen Executive Director of Bridle Up Hope 1141 Watkins Lane Alpine, UT. 84004 https://www.bridleuphope.org/ Mental health is maybe one of the world’s largest challenges right now. How wonderful that there are highly productive programs that save, that support, that help us navigate this devastating path during this crucial time. This is a story of making a difference, a story of miracles and lives saved. If you know any women who may be struggling with mental health issues, or if you want to be involved by opening your own Bridal Up Hope non-profit franchise, I hope you’ll share this episode and reach out. Have a wonderful week, and remember to create your best life with full intention. Listen to back episodes for all the best tools and mind training to help you to create your best story. We’ll see you in two weeks for the next episode. Thank you dear listeners for being here.…

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Episode 271: Quick Chat - Reframing Happiness with Cortney McDermott 15:33

42 weeks ago15:33

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Episode 271: Quick Chat - Reframing Happiness with Cortney McDermott Welcome to the Love Your Story Podcast. I’m your host Lori Lee and you’re here today for a Quick Chat. That’s one great inspirational idea in 15 minutes or less. Today’s show is about reframing happiness. Stay tuned for a quickie discussion with Corney McDermott, Author of Give Yourself Permisson , as we explore the idea of shifting the way you think about happiness so we can more easily find it. Join us in the audio program as we discuss: In the Wizard of Oz Dorthy goes on an adventure to find her way home. She heads out on this path - the Yellow Brick Road searching, along her path she has the support of the Good Witch Glenda looking out for her, she has companions who are learning along the journey also, and in the end she finds that no one else - no wizard existed who could do it for her…. I think in a way we all take this journey. We are told - no sold - all day long that we need this product, that promotion, this coach, this corner office and then we will be happy, but Cortney points out in her book - “if the something or someone isn’t pointing back to yourself, then it simply won’t work.” We talk about: Where do we find happy? What is this reframing happiness you speak of? In your book you say, “Aligning your ego to the divine truths in you is like a constant spontaneous enlightenment that doe snot rely on anything or anyone outside of you for its fulfillment.” Can you explain this? Happiness is an inside work. We are sold what happiness should be - what if our happiness doesn't align with what we are "supposed" to want? Most of the time we don't question this - but what happens when you equate happiness with "all the things and all the gold stars" and you still aren't happy. What if happy to me doesn't look like happy to everyone else? Externalities don't solve the problems The work is in your head. Accept what makes YOU happy. Even if it's different. You are okay with doing it YOUR way. Move away from what is distracting you from your own happiness. Dedicate more time to what your happiness looks like. Start small but build up your devotion to you. Focus on the self enough so you can experience the most from your relationships. Don't force things. Ease in and allow things to flow. Cortney shares a story of her own emotional youth. She shares how important it was to learn to accept her own depth of feeling. What does YOUR happiness feel like? Thanks for being with us today. And thanks to Cortney McDermott, author of Give Yourself Permission for co-hosting the past 3 Quick Chats with me and sharing her powerful insights. If you liked this episode - please consider sharing it with a friend. It’s all about doing good in the world and this is an easy way to share inspiration in your sphere. We’ll see you in two weeks for our next episode. Contact Cortney or buy her book: www.cortney mcdermott.com email: cort@cortinc.com Book: Give Yourself Permission Amazon Link to purchase: https://www.amazon.com/Give-Yourself-Permission-Development-Improvement/dp/B0C9SNG7NZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=O1BQ0ZKORWVG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.8amufz-UuP5MoibMVqy9ytZAjysDYtrkrHH-n0pAurOWTAGFh4YdjC_sUVHwmq7ksKOgWsl2vK4J_Xyj5hT1-A.ASsOCz1Ig8IdvvM1x8vBiqKQUJPx8ieg2Nlsolw-ZYA&dib_tag=se&keywords=give+yourself+permission&qid=1704998197&sprefix=give+yourself+permission%2Caps%2C226&sr=8-1…

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Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage - Interview Thais Gibson 33:24

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Episode 270: How to Stop Self Sabotage - Interview Thais Gibson Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast. Have you ever self sabotaged? Are you aware of your own limiting beliefs? Today, Thais Gibson, the founder of the Personal Development School and I are going to talk in detail - get schooled on these topics. This is really cool to get to talk with Thais about this because this Ph.D. candidate has a decade of experience helping over 30K clients, and her private practice has a 2 year waiting list, so getting to have this one-on-one class discussion with her is lit. Tune into the audio program to start dissecting self sabotage and limiting beliefs with the head teacher from the Personal Development School. Thais Gibson - is certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, in Neuro-linguistic programming, in Somatic experiencing (which is a form of therapy aimed at treating trauma and stress related disorders) She has certificates in a bunch of other therapy and self development disciplines as well…13 in total I believe… and she has 38 million views on social media. I started following her on Instagram and it’s fun to watch her great educational clips as she discusses mental health ideas. Thais….Let’s bring that to my audience. Welcome to the Love Your Story podcast Thais…. Join us on the audio to hear our conversation about: How did you get into this work? - What’s your story? Can we talk about self sabotage? What does that look like? What do you know about it? What do we need to know to keep ourselves from doing it? Do you have success stories that show us how to overcome this? I’ve been trying to recognize my own limiting beliefs. How do we discover what our limiting beliefs are? What do we do with them once we recognize them? Those are hard things to change, usually really ironed in strong with our subconscious. Let’s talk about the subconscious…how do we reprogram deeply help beliefs that are holding us back? Do you have success stories about this? Tell us about the school and what you do there? Thanks for being her with us today. I hope you’ve found just one ah-ha or idea that helps you on your journey, or inspires you to reach out to Thais, or follow her on Instagram so you can keep learning to navigate your mental health. How to contact Thais Gibson: She's big on Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool You Tube: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Facebook: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Have fun building your best life story on purpose!…

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