A Woman's Invisible Burden: Good Girl Image & Social Expectations

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Have you ever wondered why most women tend to be people pleasers in their adult life???
In this thought-provoking episode of “Crossroads and Conversations,” Geeti and Komal delve into the pervasive issue of the “Good Girl” image and the heavy social expectations placed on women. From a young age, girls are conditioned to fit into a narrow mold of being a good girl—the ones that share their possessions freely, don't say 'No", extend themselves to fit everyone's asks, feel shame about their femininity, and strive constantly to please family and society. Meanwhile, boys are encouraged to be ambitious, strong, and providers, leading to a stark contrast in upbringing.
Geeti and Komal explore how these societal norms shape women into people pleasers and men into individuals who often lack sensitivity. They discuss the invisible burden of unpaid labor that women carry, the lack of recognition for their contributions, and the impact this has on their self-worth and purpose.
Drawing from their own experiences and those of other women, they offer insights on how women can acknowledge their contributions, demand respect, and redefine their roles both inside and outside the home. This episode is a powerful call to action for women to embrace their worth and challenge the societal norms that have long constrained them.
Tune in to hear Geeti and Komal’s candid conversation on breaking free from the “Good Girl” image and reclaiming their rightful place in society.
Because life is about the conversations we have at the crossroads—the moments that shape us, connect us, and remind us of our shared humanity.
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1. Introduction To Podcast & Hosts (00:00:00)

2. Introduction to the Episode Topic (00:01:13)

3. So different yet so similar (00:02:29)

4. Childhood Experiences (00:04:37)

5. Society's obsession with 'the good girl' syndrome (00:09:27)

6. Pulling the double shift (00:12:40)

7. Marriage: Partnership or More Work? (00:14:11)

8. Financial Independence Not Equal To Fairness (00:18:23)

9. The Gender Cookie Toppings (00:22:14)

10. The Boy Moms: Victim or Culprits? (00:23:32)

11. Self Awareness Creeps In (00:26:40)

12. Adjustments Yes, Sacrifices No! (00:31:32)

13. We Are Worthy & We Must Know It (00:33:17)

14. Share Your Experiences (00:35:35)

15. Outro as the episode ends (00:35:47)