The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.
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Are there some types of people who are more likely to cheat than others? Or does cheating happen because something’s missing in the relationship? We chat to couples therapists and researchers about why cheating happens.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What It’s Like To Be The Side Piece
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We hear a lot about being cheated on but what's it like to be the other person? We hear from the sneaky links who were blindsided, and the people in years-long affairs on why they stick around, and whether they feel guilty or not.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Support Your Partner With Depression
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Dating someone who's struggling with their mental health can take a massive toll on your relationship. So in this ep, we find out the signs your partner is dealing with depression, how to talk about it and the best ways to support them. If you or your partner need help: Lifeline on 13 11 14 Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 Relationships Australia 1300 3…
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Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend?
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Is your partner your best friend, your only ride or die, and closest confidante? Some of you reckon if they're not, you're really missing out (and you're wasting your time). But should partners have separate roles to besties, and is it dangerous to make one person be absolutely everything to you?Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Can You Create Sexual Chemistry If It’s Not There?
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A lot of you told us that you think you either have sexual chemistry with someone from the beginning or you don’t. So if you’re dating/sleeping with someone and you feel like the spark just isn’t there, is it worth sticking around? Sex coach Georgia Grace has A LOT to tell you.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What Actually Makes Sexual Chemistry?
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Is sexual chemistry a spark you can’t explain? Or pheromones? Banter? Or when you get along with someone intellectually/emotionally? What actually is sexual chemistry???????Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Are We Breaking Up With Dating Apps?
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We chat to author and academic Lisa Portolan about why everyone is ditching dating apps, sussing out whether there really is a secret ranking system scoring your profile, and if a new world-first code of conduct for dating apps could change them for the better.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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The Ultimate Guide To Dating Apps
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We chat to seasoned app pro Outback Tom and hear all your tips, tricks, hacks and advice on how to decode dating apps.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What It Means To Be A Top/Bottom/Verse/Side
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Sometimes queer guys will label themselves a 'top', 'bottom', 'verse' or 'side' to describe the kinda sex they have, but what do they mean? In this ep we find out plus sex therapist Todd Baratz (@yourdiagnonsense) shares how he thinks these labels can be limiting.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Making Friends As An Adult w/ Two Broke Chicks
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Keen to make some new friends, but struggling to know how to do it? In this special ep, we’re joined by soulmate besties and podcaster’s Sal and Al from Two Broke Chicks, who’ve written a whole book about Finding Your People. We get their advice on how to find your new crew and they answer some of your friendship dilemmas. Catch Sal and Al on IG: @…
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ICYMI: How To Talk Dirty (Without Giving Yourself The Ick)
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In case you missed it in your feeds last year, In this episode, we get your hot tips on how to dirty talk and get some advice on how to chat to your partner about what you like.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Deal With Bisexual Erasure
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We chat to psychologist Chris Cheers on how to navigate bi-erasure, whether it’s internalised or if you’re copping it from all anglesOleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Has Your Bisexuality Been Invalidated?
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Why in 2024 are bisexuals still having to prove their existence as a legit sexuality? It’s called bi-erasure, and it’s a super common experience - in this ep we hear your stories.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How Porn Affects Us And Our Sex Lives
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Research shows on average people watch porn three years before they have their first sexual experience. So if porn is basically our sex education, how is it impacting the way we have sex? In this ep, Dee chats to educator Daniel Principe and sex researcher Giselle Woodley about the effect of porn, and if there’s a link to gendered violence.…
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We deep dive into the world of tradwives with author, content creator and kinky historian Esme Louise James to find out whether this trend is a dangerous fantasy that no one can live up to.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Date In The Current Gender Violence Crisis
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You told us you're feeling confused, angry, scared and worried about the current gender violence crisis, so how do you even date right now? We chat to clinical psychologist and men's mental health expert Dr Zac Seidler about the important conversations we need to be having and how to have them. Support numbers: 1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732 LIFELINE: …
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Struggling to know what to say on a first date? Whether you’re socially anxious and need some ice breakers, or you want to suss if this person is compatible and on the same page. We’ve put together the ultimate list of your favourite first date questions.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Could Your PMS Actually Be PMDD?
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If you feel extreme sadness, anxiety, irritability, breast tenderness and bloating before you get your period, you might have Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD). PMDD is a severe form of PMS and it can completely impact your work and relationships. In this episode Dr Theresa Larkin explains PMDD and what to do if you think you might have it.…
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What Is The 'Boy/Girl Sober' Movement?
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Taking a break from dating, sex and relationships? TikTok's calling it 'boy/girl sober' and it's become a huge trend to delete the apps, reset and go celibate. We find out why you're going sober and some of the benefits.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What To Do If You Can't Orgasm Without A Vibrator
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If you or your partner can only cum using sex toys and you're worried about it, well you shouldn't be. Sexologist Lauren French is here to tell you why, and what to do about it.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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All The Creative Ways You First Learnt To Masturbate
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Did you ever experiment when you were first learning to get off? Maybe you used an electric toothbrush, humped a pillow or stuck your dick into an orange. There's a lot of shame around masturbation, so in this ep we're here to normalise your creative nut techniques.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Trust Again After You've Been Cheated On
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The impact of cheating can last for years, stopping you from trusting people even if they give you no reason to doubt them.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?
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Do you think if someone's cheated, they'll cheat again? Or can people change? We hash it out with your hot takes.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Know When You Should Break Up
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It’s hard to know when a relationship has run it’s course - so when there’s nothing really wrong or really right, how can you trust your gut on what to do?Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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When Should You Know They’re The One?
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How many years should you be in a relationship before knowing it’s going to be long term or for life? We get your hot takes on whether it's time wasted if you date without knowing what your future holds - or if time isn’t a good measurement at all.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Blake Pavey On Hard Launches, Cystic Fibrosis & Why You Shouldn't Date Comedians
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We catch up with comedian Blake Pavey to chat about how his girlfriend soft launched him, the awkward experience of getting his sperm checked and his advice to anyone thinking of dating a comedian (just don’t).Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Should You Check Your Date's Following List?
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When you start seeing someone, do you suss who they’re following on their socials? We debate if lists full of insta baddies is a red flag, or if that's your insecurity talking.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Am I In A Codependent Relationship?
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Are you and your partner joined at hip, to the point where you can’t stand to be apart? Maybe you’re in the thick in the honeymoon stage or maybe you’re in a co-dependent relationship.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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To The Friend That Always Wants To Bring Their Partner…
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There's always a friend who wants to bring their partner to everything, but what are the rules around when it's ok and when it's crossing the line?Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Why You Need To Practise Post-Sex Aftercare
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‘Aftercare’ has become a bit of a buzzword the past few years, but sexologist Lauren French is here to tell you why practising post-sex aftercare is just as important as foreplay.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Is Having Break Up Sex A Good Or Bad Idea?
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Is break up sex healing or harmful? Will you get closure or just make it harder to move on? We hear your hot takes and find out why it was the hottest sex of your life.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What Is A Banjo String? And What To Do If It Snaps
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If you tear, break or snap your penile frenulum (aka the banjo string) it can be a big painful bloody mess, so here’s everything you need to know with triple j’s Dave Woodhead and sex coach Cam Fraser. (And yes we will be chatting about blood and pain and breaking your penis in this ep so if you get queasy you’ve been warned).…
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Heartbreak High's Will McDonald & James Majoos On Intimacy, Dating Apps And Furries
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Term 2 has begun for the horny SLTS of Heartbreak High, so we catch up with our favourite couple from the show - Ca$h and Darren - aka Will McDonald and James Majoos.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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What Are The Rules For Housemates' Partners Staying Over?
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If your roomie’s partner is over every night, eating your food, hogging the shower and never contributing financially or to the general house ~vibes~, you might need to set some boundaries. You tell us your rules to keep the peace, plus we hear your horror stories from when a partner overstays their welcome.…
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How To Have Better Sex With Dr Tara
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Feel like your sex life is kinda meh? Sex and relationship professor Dr Tara is here to help! With 2 million followers, you’ve probably seen her in your TikTok feed, with her snappy sex tips. In this ep, she jumps on with Dee to give advice on how to build your sexual confidence.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Sharing Passcodes And Going Through Your Partner’s Phone
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If you don’t know each other’s passcodes does that mean there’s trust issues? We hear your hot takes about privacy and going through your partner’s phone.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Heal From A Breakup With Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
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Dee catches up with neuroscientist and host of the Do You Fucking Mind podcast Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa to get all the expert advice on how to heal after a breakup and build your self-love and confidence up again.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Do You Have To Love Yourself Before You Love Somebody Else?
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We all know RuPaul’s classic line ‘if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?’ – but how true is it really? Or is self-love something that can grow through being in a relationship and loving someone else?Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Here’s Why You Might Cry Or Laugh After Sex
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You told us that you cry, laugh, get the zoomies, sneeze and get blocked ears, or itchy noses when you orgasm. So in this ep we chat to sexologist Lauren French and Dr Theresa Larkin about why it might be happening to you.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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When You Cry, Laugh Or Get The Zoomies After Sex
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You’ve heard of post nut clarity, but what about post nut reactions? We hear your weird and wonderful reactions post orgasm, from crying and laughing, to blocked ears, hyperactivity, sleepiness and cravings.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Are Dating Apps Designed To Be Addictive?
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A class action lawsuit has been filed in the US which claims dating apps are created to make people addicted and keep using them. Dee chats to Clinical Psych and researcher from UTS Anastasia Hronis about how dating apps can keep us hooked.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?
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If someone has a crush on their friend, is the friendship actually platonic? Or does it completely change the dynamic? In this ep, we debate attraction, crushes, feelings in friendships and when it blurs the line.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn
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We catch up with the world’s biggest porn stars Angela White and she answers your questions about the adult industry, how to give good head, feminism in porn and whether bigger is better.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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The Psychology Behind Paypigs And Findom
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In our last ep we met some findoms, and a paypig, but what actually makes someone get off on giving money and gifts for no sexual favours in return? Dee chats to psychologist Dr Sarah Ashton about why someone might be into financial domination.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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The World Of Paypigs And Findom
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A paypig is someone who gets off on giving you gifts, cash, paying your bills - but they don’t want any physical sexual favours in return. Sounds too good to be true right? We find out how findomming works and what’s in it for the pigs.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Louis Hanson on Mardis Gras, Coming Out & GayTMs
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We live, laugh, love comedian, presenter, and writer Louis Hanson. As your 2024 Mardi Gras host - he’s got your pride survival guide for your gay christmas.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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How To Deal If You're Attracted To Red Flags
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You told us about how you've self sabotaged your way out of healthy, secure relationships with green flags - but how can you stop this pattern from ruining a good thing? Psychologist and author Chris Cheers joins Dee to chat about why we get addicted to red flags and how you can rewire your brain.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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When Dating Green Flags Freak You Out
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If you've been in a toxic relationship or you only date red flags, do you find it hard when someone healthy, secure and safe comes along? You tell us your experience of what it's like dating from problematic to perfect, from feeling boredom, picking fights to self sabotage.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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Hannah Ferguson On Why You Should Group Date
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She’s the founder and CEO of Cheek Media, author of Bite Back, and podcast host of Big Small Talk - Hannah Ferguson put the ultimate group date to the test, and says it was the best date she’s ever been on. So here’s how she pulled it off and why she thinks group dates are going to make dating apps fun again.…
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The Struggle Of Having Sex When You Live With Your Parents
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If you’re living with your parents (maybe you’re studying, or for cultural reasons, or just coz cost of living is fkd) you might be struggling to have any kind of sex life. We hear your horror stories of getting caught, getting creative and getting off.Oleh Australian Broadcasting Corporation
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