Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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244: Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar
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Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (sabrina.zohar) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►►Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . .…
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(Matt Monday): THIS Is The Most Dangerous Moment In Dating
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So you just realized you actually like someone? Hold up a second . . . When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule. This situation is especially dangerous for people who…
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(Rewind): 5 Dating Hacks That Raise Their Attraction
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There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?” That’s often true in attraction too. So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results. As…
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(Matt Monday): Afraid You'll Never Find Love? You NEED to Hear THIS
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Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Have Hard Conversations”). So this week I thought I’d share the actual interview with her from my Live Retreat. I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the r…
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(Rewind): 11 Signs They're Serious About You
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Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel. As a result, so many people come to me asking . . . “Are we living in a time when people just don’t want to commit anymore?” “How do you know if someone is ready?” These two questions p…
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243: How To Attract and Keep The Relationship You Really Want
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Today Matt sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, author of Radical Confidence, to talk about how to escape our toxic cycles in relationships, overcoming low self-esteem, communicating with your partner (even when you have different love languages), attracting the right person, and how to figure out who is right for you. ►► Follow Lisa @LisaBilyeu ►► Get Your…
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(Matt Monday): Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead
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When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this clip I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ …
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242: 5 Things to Know Before You “Netflix and Chill” With Someone
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You’ve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, “Wanna come over to my place and watch a movie tonight?” Is it too soon? What if you like this person but you feel it’s moving a little too fast? In today’s video, I share 5 things you need to know before you “Netflix and chill” if you want more …
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241: If You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People, Listen To This...
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We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get threatened, we either go cold, hide, or lash out with passive aggression. If you've struggled with emotional unavailability or always choosing the wrong people, this might be why... ►► Get Your FREE …
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240: My Brother Stephen Interviews Me About My New Book!
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My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, and how to break toxic cycles in relationships. ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter t…
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239: 4.5 Years Later... It's Here! (Huge Announcement)
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Friends...it's finally happening :) ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
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(Matt Monday): How to Deal With the Fear of Never Finding Your Person
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I’ve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have had dates that fizzled out or incompatible relationships . . . or perhaps you’ve remained single with no such person on the horizon. It can even begin to feel like that’s the way it will always be. If y…
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(Rewind): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY
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On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening g…
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238: Why You SHOULDN'T Always Trust Your Instincts In Dating
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We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to question your instincts and make the right decision when you have an emotional reaction or be…
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237: How To Find Love With Anxious Attachment
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Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "Liberated Love" and host of the Mark Groves podcast. In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency, getting back together after a break up, and the crucial importance of TRUE honesty and fa…
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(Matt Monday): 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating
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You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)! If you’ve ever found yourself giving more than the other perso…
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(Rewind): Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS
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Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history. In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love…
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236: Why You Should Feel Confident NOW
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Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal. Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life y…
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235: THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment
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Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of…
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(Matt Monday): Is A Great First Date A Red Flag?
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A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice. It leaves us wondering: “What happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!” In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls awa…
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(Rewind) Why Did They Stop Chasing You?
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In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll…
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234: How To Have Honest Conversations About What We Want In Love
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Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love. In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down to talk about why we act aloof in dating, fear of rejection, how we put up barriers …
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(Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN!
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Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends. Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fac…
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(Rewind): 5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating)
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Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET…
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233: What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding
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Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest me…
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