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The Top of My Todo List - Life Lessons Drawn from Regrets on Deathbeds
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"This article written by Paul Graham in 2012 shares a list of the biggest regrets of people on their deathbeds and discusses how to avoid these mistakes. Graham notes that most of these mistakes are made as a result of 'neglect' and therefore we need constant reminders to avoid making them. In conclusion, he suggests that the reversed versions of these regrets, listed in five points, should be at the top of our to-do list: Do not ignore your dreams; do not work too much; speak your mind; cultivate friendships; be happy.
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# The Top of My Todo List (Life Lessons Drawn from Regrets on Deathbeds)
April 2012
A palliative care nurse called Bronnie Ware made a list of the biggest regrets of the dying. Her list seems plausible. I could see myself — _can_ see myself — making at least 4 of these 5 mistakes.
If you had to compress them into a single piece of advice, it might be: don't be a cog. The 5 regrets paint a portrait of post-industrial man, who shrinks himself into a shape that fits his circumstances, then turns dutifully till he stops.
The alarming thing is, the mistakes that produce these regrets are all errors of omission. You forget your dreams, ignore your family, suppress your feelings, neglect your friends, and forget to be happy. Errors of omission are a particularly dangerous type of mistake, because you make them by default.
I would like to avoid making these mistakes. But how do you avoid mistakes you make by default? Ideally you transform your life so it has other defaults. But it may not be possible to do that completely. As long as these mistakes happen by default, you probably have to be reminded not to make them. So I inverted the 5 regrets, yielding a list of 5 commands
> Don't ignore your dreams; don't work too much; say what you think; cultivate friendships; be happy.
which I then put at the top of the file I use as a todo list.
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Relevant Keywords: avoiding life regrets, Bronnie Ware regrets of the dying, avoiding errors of omission, importance of dreams, work-life balance, expressing feelings, importance of friendships, pursuing happiness, todo list priorities"
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