Sun soakers in the midst of war: unforgettable beach life in torn Lebanon

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Welcome to this episode where I journey through time and memories. Join me in this serene moment at my kitchen table, sipping tea and gazing out the vast window. The ever-changing view of nature unfolding in front of me brings back memories of 1989 when I lived in war-torn Lebanon. Amidst the never-ending conflict, my friends and I, known as the sun-soakers, found beautiful moments in the darkness.

· The War-Torn Background: In 1989, Lebanon was embroiled in a fifteen-year-long war involving multiple countries and factions. Despite the chaos, our group of teenagers found solace in small pleasures, determined to embrace happiness amidst the turmoil.

· Preparing for a Beach Day: The scarcity of water and electricity during the war forces me to be resourceful. We gather water from a distant location, and although showers are rare luxuries, I make the most of it to look my best for the much-anticipated beach adventures.

· The Perfect Beach Outfit: With immense excitement, I dress in my trendiest bikinis, oversized shirts, and favorite jeans shorts. These outfits make me feel fabulous, and as I stroll towards the harbor of Beirut, my friends and I are unstoppable.

· Negotiating with Soldiers: In a city under siege, our beach options are limited, but we are determined to make it to the harbor. One of our friends, Mike, uses his charisma and a family connection to negotiate with the soldiers guarding the entrance.

· A Day at the Beach: With tension lifted, we reach the beach area, surrounded by tanks and militants. This peculiar setting does not deter us from having a blast. We bask in the sun, swim, flirt, and create unforgettable memories.

· The Allure of Arak: The adults enjoy arak, a traditional Lebanese alcohol, which becomes even more magical when diluted with water. The transformation of arak and the laughter of our parents add to the lively atmosphere.

· A Safe Haven: During the war, we visit Electricite du Liban beach, a refuge for employees and their families. This oasis brings us together, and it is here we form unforgettable bonds with our neighbors' kids.

· Remembering Friends: Looking back, I reminisce about friends from those war days. Some are still connected, while others have faded away, leaving me with treasured memories of unity and resilience.

· Challenges of Identity: As the war ends, we face the challenges of discovering our identities in a transformed Lebanon. The bonds that held us together during the war began to change, and some friendships evolved differently

· From War to Peaceful Escapes: Today, I find solace in new beach memories with my family at Zandvoort beach. The beach holds a special place in my heart, symbolizing freedom, and escape, providing a sanctuary from

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