The Importance of Being Kind to Men

The Confidential with Simone Gisondi

In this episode of The Confidential Podcast, Simone Giussandi and Kaifei Aldam discuss the importance of being kind to men, particularly in the context of divorce and separation. They explore the idea that women often have the upper hand in these situations and discuss the biases and challenges that men may face. They share personal experiences and insights, highlighting the need for compassion and understanding in relationships. Simone and Kaifei emphasize the importance of clear communication, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility for one's own actions. Ultimately, they advocate for kindness as a fundamental aspect of being a high-value individual, both in relationships and in life.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

• Being kind to men, especially during and after divorce, is an important topic that deserves more attention.
• There may be a bias that gives women the upper hand in divorce proceedings, which can lead to bitterness and resentment from men.
• It is important to consider the financial implications of divorce and how it can impact both parties, especially if there are children involved.
• Kindness towards men in divorce situations is crucial for the well-being of both parties and any children involved.
• Effective communication and setting clear boundaries are essential in maintaining a healthy relationship and avoiding unnecessary conflict.

BEST MOMENTS:
"I feel like it's right that no matter the circumstances of why you split up, that you should financially contribute more if you're not the main carer, because the main carer has so much more responsibility."

"I think the only way you can arrive at having the ability to be kind throughout it when you've been so damaged and so hurt is the self-work."

"It's important to keep in mind that the very things that you do in these situations are going to be creating the opinion of who you are as a person."

"It's so important that we have to be kind because that's just who we are, not because we owe it to the men, not because we feel that we have to do something to get something in return."

"I feel like it's a really difficult place to be when you are say 13 years down the line in this marriage and somebody's doing something that is completely violating your standards, but you're so intertwined."

"I think divorce is such a circumstance as well because if you have a woman that can look at it and say hey you know what, this hurts like hell but i still am a human being and i still have compassion and you're a person and i just don't have it in me to go and try to rip you apart and take you down."

"I think if you take responsibility for what you allow, because I think it's about allowing as well, if you continue to allow someone to do something to you, like the cheating, you know, over and over again, it's not making you happy, it's harming you, it's making you feel devalued, your self-worth is on the floor."

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