Navigating Divorce: Lessons Learned from an Amicable Split

The Confidential with Simone Gisondi

Today Simone takes us on a journey through her own divorce and personal growth. Joining Simone are her two dear friends and previous podcast guests, Connie and Kaifeh. Together, they share the rollercoaster ride of Simone's relationship with her ex-husband, the hurdles they faced, and how Simone's challenging childhood shaped their marriage.

Simone emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive relationship with her ex for the sake of their children, and she shares the incredible growth and self-discovery that came after their divorce. This episode goes deep into the intricacies of divorce, discussing how culture and upbringing can affect relationships and the challenges of finding love again after a long-term partnership ends.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. The importance of maintaining a respectful and amicable relationship with an ex-spouse for the sake of the children. Simone and her ex-husband prioritized their children's well-being and modeled healthy co-parenting despite their divorce.

2. The impact of past traumas on relationships. Simone's traumatic childhood experiences influenced her behavior and reactions in her marriage, leading to challenges and conflicts.

3. The role of communication and self-development in a successful marriage. Simone acknowledged her own personal growth and self-awareness, questioning whether she and her ex-husband would be compatible now due to their different levels of ambition and personal growth.

4. The potential challenges of finding a new partner after divorce. Simone expressed concerns about finding someone who matches her personal growth and ambition, highlighting the difficulty of finding a partner who aligns with her values and goals.

5. The negative effects of a toxic and vindictive divorce. Simone witnessed the destructive nature of her parents' divorce, which involved financial manipulation and emotional turmoil. This experience further shaped her views on marriage and divorce.

BEST MOMENTS

1. "I remember seeing the cracks in our marriage. I brought all of that anger, trauma, and unresolved things within myself to the marriage."

2. "I was so mad when I started seeing, 'Holy fuck, my marriage is going to end.' So I'm not so great."

3. "I can see the challenge in finding a partner now when Frank is a metric for that. I'd love to find a Frank. I haven't found a Frank"

4. "I had to help my mom with the entire divorce proceedings, her being an immigrant with not speaking the language. It was sort of all on me to kind of figure things out."

5. "The stroke itself happened in 2011. We were already in the full swing of the divorce. And yeah, it was a lot of stress."

HOST BIO

Meet the remarkable Simone, a seasoned coach, published author, and the dynamic host of The Confidential. With a life story that includes surviving a brutally communist regime, enduring a tumultuous family life, and even facing a stroke amidst divorce, Simone embodies the true essence of strength and resilience.

As the driving force behind The Confidential, and an honorary graduate of the school of hard knocks, Simone offers a powerful blend of personal experience and professional coaching insights. Each episode is a source of empowerment, enlightenment, and encouragement, designed to inspire listeners to overcome life's hurdles.

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