054: 7 Minutes to Stop Disruptive Behavior NOW and Build Trust

Playing In The Sandbox

If you don’t take the time to address disruptive behavior, your team may begin to lose trust in you as a leader. How can you change this? In this short episode, I’ll share a heartfelt 7-minute strategy to help you overcome this leadership challenge.

1. The first step in stopping disruptive behavior is understanding its root cause. Pull your team member aside and ask them, with compassion, what’s really going on. Avoid addressing the issue in front of others, as this could cause embarrassment or resentment. A private, thoughtful conversation will show that you genuinely care about their well-being.

2. Don’t shy away from addressing issues head-on—it’s an essential part of leadership. Direct confrontation doesn’t have to create negative tension. When handled with care, it demonstrates your commitment to their growth and the team’s success. Confronting problems assertively, but kindly, shows that you are dedicated to fostering a positive, respectful environment. It earns the trust and respect of your team because they know you will guide them through challenges with sincerity.

3. Establishing ground rules for team interactions is vital for cultivating a sense of mutual respect. Write these rules down and review them before meetings to ensure everyone is on the same page. By involving the team in setting and upholding these standards, you create a sense of ownership, making it easier for everyone to hold each other accountable. This way, you share the responsibility, and it lightens the load for you as the leader.

4. Be open about your desire to create positive changes and involve your team in the process. When you follow through on your words with meaningful action, you demonstrate how much you value a respectful, collaborative environment. Leading by example is one of the most powerful ways to build trust and create a high-functioning team that feels truly cared for.

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