Walking Through Tensions: Navigating Family Dynamics with Shelley Jones-Holt, Ed.D.

Restorative Works!

Claire de Mézerville López welcomes Shelley Jones-Holt, Ed.D. to the Restorative Works! Podcast. Claire is joined again by co-host, IIRP Vice President for Partnerships Keith Hickman. In this series of episodes, we explore what it means to “walk through tensions” - how we exist, find, and build community and forge a path forward through times of extreme polarization. Dr. Shelley joins us to share her expertise in equity-driven leadership and restorative practices, offering a fresh perspective on handling polarized situations within families and communities. As the U.S. faces a period of heightened polarization, Dr. Shelley delves into the importance of proactive dialogue and conflict resolution strategies. She emphasizes the need for families to establish ground rules for discussions before conflicts arise, providing practical advice on setting expectations and maintaining constructive conversations. Drawing from her extensive experience, Dr. Shelley highlights how restorative practices can bridge ideological divides and foster understanding, even in the most challenging conversations. Dr. Shelley currently serves as a Courageous Leadership Consultant providing training, facilitation, coaching, and support to equity-driven teams and organizational, legislative, educational, and family leaders across the nation. She is the founder of Leadership Legacy Consulting, LLC, and the visionary behind the non-profit Family Legacy 5, which focuses on providing structural, adaptive and technical support to educational, corporate, and family leaders. Her emphasis on a restorative practices-based approach is foundational to engaging in uncomfortable conversations about controversial topics, such as race and identity oppression. The expansion to empower families through family leadership training for all was birthed through the realization that the mental models that drive systemic change originate not at school or work, but at home. Tune in to explore strategies for addressing differing viewpoints with loved ones, including how to create safe spaces for open dialogue and the significance of historical and cultural literacy in these discussions. Walking Through Tensions is a special series of the Restorative Works! Podcast. Through this series, we aim to generate reflection, hope, and wisdom about how to strengthen relationships and community in situations of unrest, dissent, polarization, and concern. Its title, far from literal, represents a metaphor that poses a question: how can we exist and collaborate while surrounded by complex and tense environments? Our guests are doing impactful work in these areas: please be mindful that they may mention specific sensitive topics of situations taking place around the world. Their positioning may or may not be aligned or reflective of the IIRP’s. We invite you to listen and to reflect with us while also taking care of your mental and emotional wellbeing. We hope to guide you in finding the learning tools that will help you and your community to walk through tensions in the best way possible.