Episode 17.2: Jenn Pinkerton (Part 2) - The Power of Showing Up for Intimacy

Liss’N Kristi

Jenn Pinkerton joins Liss 'N Kristi for the second part of our conversation, where we focus on what it means to truly know oneself, and the pivotal role self-awareness can play in a satisfying intimate relationship.

We talk about women's sexuality, and how a therapist's "yuck and yum list" can revolutionize communication and pleasure for couples. We confront the shadow of shame that lingers over sexual relationships and how to ascend the 'ladder of connection' to achieve a deeply rooted sexual partnership.

Jenn is a psychotherapist, sexologist, writer and speaker, who coaches individuals, couples and families in connection, vulnerability, growth, mental health and self-awareness.

A trauma-informed healer, Jenn also offers online workshops and speaking events to encourage her message with others.

Through her REDHEADREVEAL® Podcast, she sparks conversations with thought leaders about relationships, intimacy and sex.
https://jennpinkerton.com/

STORIES:
00:00 - Start

00:10 - "Showing up" for relationships

01:17 - The "Yuck and Yum" list used by therapists

02:48 - Why we don't talk about sex

04:22 - Intimacy and "The Holy Grail"

06:01 - "We're ashamed of our bodies"

08:05 - Creating a comfortable space

08:55 - Men and Women are different

10:36 - The book "Untamed" by Glennon Doyle

12:40 - "I'm a Lesbian" - "No, you're not!"

16:10 - Why we stay in a relationship

18:52 - "When you feel trapped, you can't feel vulnerable"

21:07 - When your partner won't talk about it

22:10 - "We get a book that we like"

25:00 - In therapy, kids have space to be heard

28:03 - What society teaches men

30:00 - When Clint Eastwood calls you "brave"

31:38 - Men can be tough and still be "atuned"

34:50 - The problem with negative energy

38:37 - Where to reach Jenn