We are all victims of victims. Relationships are mirrors of ourselves. Look for moment at someone in your life who bothers you. describe 3 things about this person that you don’t like, things that you want him or her to change. Now look deeply inside of you and ask yourself, “Where am I like that, and when do I do the same things?” Close your eyes and give yourself the time to do this. Then ask yourself if you ARE WILLING TO CHANGE. When you remove these patterns, habits, and beliefs from your thinking and behavior, either the other person will change or he or she will leave your life. This is the only way to change others – change ourselves first. Change your patterns, and you will find that they are different, too. Attracting Love Love comes when we least expect it. Love is never outside ourselves; love is within us. Don’t settle for anybody just to have someone. Set your standards. Be loving, and you will be lovable. Be open and receptive to love.