Many people are struggling with their marriage, this is not a new phenomenon. Whether it's a controlling spouse or an aggressive one, people want real practical advice how to navigate these situations. People are also sick of spending thousands of dollars on multiple therapists only to hear the same psychobabble over and over again. If this resonates with you, you have found the right address for a complicated marriage. Thousands of couples have been guided back to a functioning marriage in ...
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The podcast where we get real about building the marriage of your dreams. Marriage coach Kayla Levin takes married Jewish women from surviving and overwhelmed to thriving and connected through practical tips, real life inspiration and more than a little self awareness along the way. Whether you are newly married, considering marriage, or have been married for years, I will share with you a powerful framework to help you get the most enjoyment and fulfillment from your relationships--and ulti ...
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people are ultra sensitive. Don’t get upset at them for the way they are, work with them.Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Ep. 216 - The SRC Day 8 - In-Laws Love
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13:02A good relationship with your in-laws is possible—even if it doesn’t always feel that way. In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most common struggles I hear from newlyweds: feeling criticized or undermined by their mother-in-law. But what if the issue isn’t confidence, boundaries, or even her intentions? What if the key is simply allowing you…
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Ep. 215 - The SRC Day 7 - Communication Upgrade
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12:22Shana Rishona Challenge Day 7: Communication Upgrade It wasn't easy for me to pick which communication hack to use, but yesterday someone told me that after DECADES of marriage, this tool gave her a new insight into her husband. That's enough HP for me. Here's the idea: women talk back-and-forth. We interrupt to show we get it. We finish each other…
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Ep. 214 - The SRC Day 6 - What Do You Need?
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3:36💞 Shana Rishona Challenge Day 6: What Do You Need? Have you ever wished your husband would get you a drink/tell you to get some sleep/bring you something to eat so that you could feel like he really cared? Good. That's what you're supposed to feel like during shana rishona. At the beginning of a marriage (I'm talking the first decade), it's about h…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Most people think they know their spouse. Not only do people not know their spouse, most people don’t even know who they are. Listen in and finally get to meet yourself.Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Ep. 213 - The SRC Day 5 - The Male Mind & You
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3:05💞 Shana Rishona Challenge Day 5: The Male Mind & You I feel like I could talk for a year about the male mind and not lose interest. If I could go back and talk to MYSELF as a newlywed, this is what I'd share with her first: Listen to what he's saying. I don't mean listen to what he seems to be saying. Or listen to what he's implying. Or listen to w…
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Ep. 212 - The SRC Day 4 - A Day In Unconditional
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5:27Shana Rishona Challenge Day 4: A Day in Unconditional Unconditional love, by definition, is loving someone when they're not meeting your conditions. Loving someone who's doing it all "right" is easy. Unconditional love can ONLY be practiced when he's not doing what you wanted or expected. Sometimes the answer IS more communication or understanding.…
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The Foundation For A Healthy Marriage
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8:49Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people are missing the basics of a good marriage . It’s a shame because it’s so simple .Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Ep. 211 - The SRC Day 3 - Your Values Audit
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12:20Resources: Join the Shana Rishona Challenge on WhatsApp Check out the First Year Married Course 💞 Shana Rishona Challenge Day 3: Your Values Audit! Today I'm talking about values, especially when you feel your husband isn't exactly living up to the values in some (large or small) way. We can often get so stuck in feeling we either have to "ac…
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Ep. 210 - The SRC Day 2 - Get Some Oxygen!
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2:31Resources: Join the Shana Rishona Challenge on WhatsApp Check out the First Year Married Course 💞 Shana Rishona Challenge Day 2: Get Some Oxygen! 💞 Think about your young marriage like a preemie. Why do we put these tiny babies into incubators? We want to protect them from germs and we want to make sure they get high-quality oxygen. Your new mar…
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Ep. 209 - The Shana Rishona Challenge Day 1
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5:17In this episode Kayla introduces the Shana Rishona challenge, inspired by her First Year Married course. Kayla emphasizes the importance of cultivating 'newlywed energy' regardless of how long you've been married. She shares her recent experience of balancing family needs while revamping her marriage course and explains the purpose of the eight-day…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people fight tooth and nail for their ideologies . That’s good if it doesn’t interfere with your marriageOleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Criticism is wrong and must stop in order to have a thriving relationship .Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Is Marriage Supposed To Be So Hard ?
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7:26Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people feel like they are working so hard at their marriage and seeing no results . The answer to why this is happening is very simple .Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Ep. 208 - Appreciation vs. Flattery
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17:27If it sometimes feels strange to "give points" or "be positive" or all those other marriage tricks we're told are so vital to seeing the best in our husbands, I might have a solution for you. ---Want to make the most of shana rishona? Join the hundreds of women who are reaching for the top of what marriage can offer by learning the skills that make…
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How To Tell If Your Marriage Is Good
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10:28Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people think their marriage is horrible when they might have a great marriage . So sad.Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Although criticism should be off limits in any relationship, it happens. If it does it’s worthwhile to think about what your spouse is saying.Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Ep. 207 - Shana Rishona is All the Things with Mushka Gopin, host of the Shana Rishona Summit
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26:22Mushka and I share a soapbox today about the need to widen our focus when we support women in shana rishona. Her upcoming summit does exactly that (and I hope I do the same in my online course!) and so I'm thrilled you'll get a behind-the-scenes peek into what she's offering THIS WEEK. Important links for you: Register for FREE for the Shana Rishon…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! The answer to why you can’t get things in order may not be so complicated. Sometimes you have the answers and are having a hard time implementing them.Oleh Rabbi Ali Cohen
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Where Are Many Couples Going Wrong
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7:57Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! I do believe that there is a common thread in many struggling couples. Listen in to hear the three main reasons why couples struggle.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Overthinking May Be Harming Your Marriage
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6:15Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people are over thinkers. Call it ocd, anxiety, whatever you like, it could be harmful to a relationship.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Dealing With My Spouses Mental Health Issues
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8:45Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! So many people struggle with mental health. That doesn’t make it easier to live with them. Finally gain clarity on how to deal with them.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Stop micromanaging your spouse, or stop them from micromanaging you!Oleh Ali Cohen
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How Can I Get My Spouse To Lose Weight ?
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8:10Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people would like to know what to do with an overweight spouse. Listen in to hear how to finally get results.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Deal With Sensitive Topics In A Sensitive Manner
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7:07Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Almost every couple has areas where they disagree. Many times these disagreements become the source of frustration. Deal with them properly once and for all.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Changing The Relationship On Your Own
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6:28Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! It takes two to tango but one to lead . Contrary to popular belief, I’ve seen countless relationships turned around drastically when one person stepped up their game .Oleh Ali Cohen
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Ep. 206 - From Self Centered to Self Aware (Three Ways to Maximize Shana Rishona Part 3)
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19:24Want to make ANY changes in your life or relationship? The first step is self-awareness. No, I don't mean you need to go meditate on a grassy hill. You need to know what's driving you. What you're thinking. What's that inner monologue going through your head all day--and where's it taking you? Today I'm talking about the basics of getting yourself …
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Popular psychology is teaching us today that fighting and anger are normal and even healthy . It pains me to even mention these heretical statements. Let’s say no to these anti Torah concepts !Oleh Ali Cohen
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Ep. 205 - No Training, He's Not a Puppy (Three Ways to Maximize Shana Rishona Part 2)
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13:49Today I'm sharing with you one of my PET PEEVES that I hear all over--even from those I admire and respect greatly--and that is talking about your husband like he's a puppy that needs "training." In today's episode I'm going to try to onboard you onto my mission to step away from this mindset by explaining to you the unintended consequences of this…
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Ep 197 - Why You Don't Have Enough Time - Summer Series Replay
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24:21This summer we're going back to basics and bringing you the oldies but goodies--our most popular and fundamental episodes. Don't stress about catching up on every past episode--if you need it, we're bringing it to you here. Want to take this work further? I would love to coach you inside my coaching program, How to Glow. It's a no-commitment monthl…
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How Much Physical Intimacy Is Normal ?
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7:58Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people are confused about intimacy as this topic is sensitive. Here I will shed some light on this topic as it is not spoken about much and needs more attention.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Ep. 204 Get A Life (Three Ways to Maximize Shana Rishona Part 1)
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12:37We just opened doors for the First Year Married course and to celebrate I'm giving you a 3 part series on how to get the most out of shana rishona. This episode is mainly for my newlyweds out there, but these tools are relevant no matter how long you've been married. In today's episode, find out how getting a life is CRITICAL for a happy marriage--…
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Identifying If You’re Ruining Your Relationship
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7:22Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many marriages are struggling. It’s frightening to witness people who are drowning the relationship and completely projecting their faults on their spouse. It’s time to take responsibility of our actions.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Get your marriage in order in a few sessions in an affordable way . The days of the blind leading the blind must come to an end. This is the proper way that Torah guidance is done.Oleh Ali Cohen
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The Failing System Of Marital Assistance ( or lack of )
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7:45Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! In this episode I will discuss the failing system of marital assistance. People spending thousands of dollars and many months trying to get things in order. This is a ridiculous and disgusting way to drain people and their bank accounts. It’s time to find a new pathway to marital ha…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many people say communication is the key. I’m sorry, most people communicate just fine. Lack of understanding where your spouse or even yourself are coming from is more of a key than communication. Listen in and fix your Jewish marriage once and for all.…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Everyone has heard of the 5 love languages. Most people are sold on its concepts. I say most because I have multiple problems with it. If you’re bold enough to hear something new and be honest with yourself, come join me in this episode.…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! In this episode I will explain the main reason why marriages fail. Many people are being misled down a dirt road of trauma and therapy. Wasting precious time and money. Spending months or years on the couch is one of the biggest mistakes for couples looking to get things in order.…
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Stop The Bleeding ! ( marital warfare )
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7:43Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Did fighting become the way you guys communicate ? Are you fighting in front of the kids to an unhealthy point ? Do you feel like your spouse is always looking to pick a fight ? The time has come to stop the bleeding !Oleh Ali Cohen
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Are you sure your spouse is a problem ?
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8:12Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Struggling couples mostly share the same feelings . “ If only my spouse would change”. If only they would get the help that they need”. I do come across many people that are the problem but live a life of denial. It’s time to take inventory and make sure you’re not the problem !…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Going through a complicated marriage is not easy. It can be very painful. There are a few points one must keep in mind while going through these tough times.Oleh Ali Cohen
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Physical intimacy is a delicate point in many relationships. I do see many people making serious errors in this area and the basics are not being spoken about at all. Finally understand the truth about intimacy and maybe a thing or two about your spouse.…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Everyone would love to be attractive in their spouses eyes all the time . However, many people make these three mistakes which make them unattractive. Listen in to another short but powerful podcast and learn how to avoid these pitfalls.…
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Struggling couples often give up hope. They feel as though no one gets them. Some feel doomed if their spouse refuses to get help. In this episode I will propose a new idea about struggling couples that suggests that they might have the answers to their problems right under their no…
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Getting Your Spouse To A Therapist
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7:14Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Almost every complicated marriage will consist of one or both partners feeling that their spouse needs emotional help or support. Many times though it can seem like an impossible task getting them the help that they so desperately need. The results; loss of hope and frustration. It …
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Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Many professionals say things such as “ communication is the key” or “ it’s all about communication”. While it’s true that communication is important, communicating with a sensitive or complicated person will need a different approach. With my breakthrough idea, emotional communicat…
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Your spouse doesn’t choose to be complicated
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8:03Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Finally understand what is happening with your complicated spouse. They don’t choose to be complicated, they are sensitive. By first internalizing this reality, you will stop getting defensive and start being compasionate.Oleh Ali Cohen
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What A Complicated Person Looks Like
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8:00Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! You or your spouse may be a complicated person (ouch). In this episode We will be describing what a complicated person is. When dealing with a complicated spouse, you know good and well that the "run of the mill" advice will not work. You need something else. Something different. Fi…
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Fix Your Jewish Marriage Introduction: Two Types Of Couples
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7:38Please leave a question you’d like discussed in a future podcast ! Some couples just get things right. Of course they need to put in the work. However, there are those "complicated couples" that can't seem to get things right no matter how hard they try. Multiple therapists, apologies and make ups are frustrating them tremendously. Obviously they n…
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Ep. 203 - For the Love of Newlyweds
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17:11Welcome back to you and me!! Today we're talking about what shana rishona is really all about. It might not be what you think! (Plus a tool that can help you at any stage of your marriage.) The First Year Married program launches June 2! If you're a newlywed, you can sign up here: kaylalevin.com/newlywed The Glow Community to join us for Mastermind…
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