Join two moms who talk about what it's like when your child dies from a drug overdose, and what life is like after. Warning: Conversations may contain triggering material, dark and irreverent humor, and possible cursing. A weekly podcast and grief blog.
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What Are We Doing? Are We Supposed To Be Doing Something?
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In this episode, we discuss how the ways in which we care for ourselves have changed. This discussion leads into a conversation about finding meaning. Is it out there to find?Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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In this episode we discuss what it means to heal. Is there a definition for it? Is it possible to heal from grief? Or is grief a chronic condition - something to be endured but never truly healed? Interwoven into the conversation is the question of how to hold love and loss at the same time.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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Holidays and All the Stuff That Goes With It
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Holidays. When your child dies, what do you do about holidays? Do patterns change or stay the same? Cling to the old ways, or make new ones? We've pretty much decided that you can do whatever the hell you want to do. And you can make a change anytime you want to. And somehow, that led to a discussion about what we did with their things. Keep them? …
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What do we do with our memories of our children? The photos? When your child dies of an overdose, memories can get very loaded. Even the good ones can be painful. Are all of our memories ruined? We discuss.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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Is It Really Ok That I'm Not Ok?
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In this episode we talk about our sometimes tendencies to make deaths of our children ok for others. Is it ok to NOT do that? People want a happy ending, and we can't offer that. We talk about Megan Divine's book, It's Ok That You're Not Ok.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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How have our boundaries changed after the deaths of our children? Do we relate to people differently? In this episode, we discuss ways in which our perspectives of what's important have changed. Friendships change, and the way we connect and communicate change. We talk about what's of value now.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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The Things We Reach For When It Happens
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Both of our sons died from a drug overdose. In the immediate aftermath, besides asking ourselves how this could have happened, what do we do to try to understand it? Is it helpful to go through their personal things? Is it helpful to try to identify what they were feeling? Weirdly, are they ok? Do we try to know where they are now?…
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I've Got a Kid in a Bag: Otherwise Known as Unfinished Business
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One of us has a kid in a bag. The other has hers in a box. We start a conversation about what we've done with the ashes of our children after they've died. Is there a right answer? How do we relate to what remains? Literally.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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Cracking Open - A Follow Up on the Mind-Body Connection
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Following up on the previous episode, The Mind-Body Connection, we explore the effects of "cracking open" and allowing ourselves to soften in our grief. What happens when we lower our protective barriers and explore what we find there? We look at other avenues of connection and think about what we're willing and able to do in this present moment. W…
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Today we explore the mind-body connection and what that means for us. Neither of us had ever explored this before our children died. What is it? How does it work? How does it help? Can we use the mind-body connection to connect to our children in a way that's meaningful?Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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We spent the first six episodes lightly touching on the details of our children's deaths. In this episode we ask, why did we do that? What is the benefit of sharing the particulars? What does it mean to have to work through the details of that day? As it says in the title, we're in it now. We are diving in.…
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How do you share the news of what happened to your child? What happens when you share a deep loss with others? Here's a first look. Our stories might change over time.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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Weirdly, we sometimes find ourselves still trying to meet social expectations even after the worst has just happened. Why do we do this and what have we learned?Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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How Do You Start Your Day and ... My Son Died
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In the lead up to talking about the day Garrett died, we chat about how we sometimes start our day. The shower sets the tone.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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Nicholas: The Aftermath of a Sudden Death
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We explore the immediate aftermath of Nicholas' death. How do you navigate the world when this happens?Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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How do you know when things got started? How do you know when there's a problem?Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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We introduce ourselves and start talking about our kids, and how this kind of death explodes your world.Oleh DeAnne & Astrid
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