Resistence is the very thing that slows things down, sends you off in the wrong direction and keeps old patterns in play. If you want to get results, eradicating resistance is the way to go.Oleh Dorothy Holder

So many people speak in absolutes when it comes to spiritual and very subjective concepts. You may see something but do you know what you are seeing, you may fear something and that will alter how your mind interprets what you are seeing, We are nothing if not creatures that are slaves to fears and desires if we can't take an explorative and object…

Let's find out.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Detachment is a concept that is well known even though it is rarely sought out by spiritual seekers.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Do you need to focus on meditation or chakras to expand your consciousness??Oleh Dorothy Holder

Transformation isn't just a word. it is hard work. It isn't a change in direction or attitude it completely turns something upside down and enlightenment always comes first.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Mastery is the aim, mastery over self, over one's abilities over ones desires, thoughts and emotions. How do you get there?Oleh Dorothy Holder

One gets a bad rap, the other gets ignored and neither offer up spiritual qualities.Oleh Dorothy Holder

The idea of spiritual development is very attractive, until...Oleh Dorothy Holder

Living your potential is a daily deal not an end game. The proccess is more fun than you might imagine and the rewards last a lifetime. www.dorothyholder.comOleh Dorothy Holder

Realization to Self Realization a journey into the present is vital if one wants to move on into spiritual autonomy.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Do you manifest anything in the world? Perhaps not and believing you manifest what you want is more often than not a limiting belief and even an inhibitor in your creative strategies.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Wave goodbye to the old and embrace the new with me, Marcy Backhus, as we transition from the beloved "Aging Ain't for Sissies" to the fresh and exciting "Inside Marcy's Mind." Reminisce with me about the enchanting vistas of Santorini and the hustle and bustle of Thessaloniki, where I unearthed the true spirit of Greece beyond the beaten path. Let…

What's the Difference? Let's find out.Oleh Dorothy Holder

how quickly or slowy things happen becomes more apparent when you have information to hand that can empower you and not using it tends to be disempowering.Oleh Dorothy Holder

It isn't all fun and games, we are often challenged by past memories that don't feel like memories, snatching bits and pieces of others lives and more... a meandering look at what it means to open to subtle energy fields.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Embark on an odyssey through the Greek Islands as I, Marcy Backhus, recount the unforgettable moments from my recent trip with my California church group, tracing the path of St. Paul. Picture the majesty of an eclipse in New York, the transition to the warmth of sun-kissed skin in sandals, and the profound appreciation for the resilience of spirit…

Potential IS what excites us in any aspect of life and for ourselves. When we can't see it we become disillusioned, a fairly common state that is quickly followed by frustration.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Resistence is an umbrella for many behaviours that lead us down a variety of pathways that tend toward feeling guilty or fake. When you know better, do better.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Ever had one of those weeks where every little win felt like conquering Everest? That's exactly what I, Marcy Bacckhus, experienced, and I'm here to share it all with you. From the comical annoyance of a phone dying just as you arrive at the airport to pick up someone to the ever-present question of when to switch from weight loss to maintenance mo…

Navigating the tranquil aftermath of St. Patrick's Day in Chicago, I, Marcy Backhus, found myself reflecting on the importance of balance—a theme that's distinctly echoed throughout this week's chat. From the heart-pumping thrills of aqua sculpting that's keeping my joints jubilant at 63, to the quiet introspection that comes with an empty nest as …

Good or bad they happen, are they what you think of when you think of spiritual development?Oleh Dorothy Holder

not every sign is a positive one andnot every sign is a sign....Oleh Dorothy Holder

As I sat basking in the glow of Oscar night glamour, I couldn't help but ponder the juxtaposition of Hollywood's dazzling facade against the weightier discussions of life's inevitable outcomes. In this episode, I, Marcy Backhus, invite you on a journey from the red carpet's luster to the intimate, often unspoken conversations about informed care ch…

We are pretty good at offering up reasons for avoiding our pain and our development. This can lead to years of playing around without genuine transformation. Are you in or out?Oleh Dorothy Holder

Early esoteric experiences can be confusing, trying to apply a belief or even reason to them can make life emotinally challenging.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Do you need to expand energy to become a better reader? well yes, yes you do.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Save time money and your sanity by knowing what you are seeking when you set out on a spiritual journeyOleh Dorothy Holder

A difficult concept for many but the only way to move on.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Ever dreamed of jet-setting without breaking the bank? Let me, Marcy Backhus, be your guide as I spill secrets on how to transform your travel dreams into a cost-effective reality. Picture this: You've just scored an unexpected first-class upgrade, thanks to a loyalty program tip I'll share. And imagine the satisfaction of reuniting with distant fa…

It is easy to get disillusioned if you don''t know what you are trying to achieve.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Have you ever been chuckling over something as mundane as toilet paper placement? Oh, the joys of domestic life! It's Marcy here, and this Podcast episode is a rollercoaster ride through the hilarity of household quirks and the profound moments of family bonding. I'm unpacking the complexities of our daily lives, from the lighthearted debate over t…

Embark on a journey with me, Marcy Backhus, as I reveal how transforming your space can lead to a tranquil mind. Picture the warmth of the Arizona sun as I weave tales of retirement bliss, from launching a church book club to private art viewings in Chicago. You'll be inspired to tackle your own cluttered corners and overstuffed drawers with my per…

Ever find yourself tossing and turning, unable to find that sweet slumber? You're not alone, and this episode is a cozy blend of personal insights and practical tips on conquering those restless nights, especially during the menopausal marathon. It's a February affair on Aging Aphorsis, where I, Marcy Backhus, weave tales of my serene week drenched…

As the dough rises and the scent of pumpkin spice fills the air, I, Marcy, invite you to join me in a conversation as comforting as the bread I'm perfecting. This week, we're getting personal. From the vibrant glow of city lights that grace my home on the 36th floor to the soft paws of my cat Pickles making her presence known during our chat, we're…

Join me, Marcy Backhus, on a heartfelt journey through life's inevitable changes as I share the ups and downs of retiring, relocating, and the art of letting go in the great city of Chicago. Emotions run deep as I recount my 63rd spin around the sun, celebrating at Rosebud with a newfound zest compared to the solitude of my previous birthday. I pul…

Caught amidst a snowstorm's unexpected charm at Chicago O'Hare, I, Marcy Backhus, transformed travel delays into a stage for reflection and storytelling. Experience the whimsical 'snow plow ballet' through my eyes and join in the childlike wonder as we witness the magic of a snow-melting machine. But it's not all about the frosty delays; this episo…

Embark on a transformative journey with me as we navigate the cluttered corridors of our homes and minds, setting the stage for a serene and structured oasis. With the turn of the calendar page, I'm opening up about my personal voyage through the trials of health, the triumphs of sobriety, and the heartfelt celebration of family milestones. As I re…

As the snowflakes tenderly kissed the ground on New Year's Eve, my husband Craig and I found warmth in a shared serenity, an evening of reflection marked by a snowy stroll and the nostalgic episodes of the Twilight Zone. It's these quiet moments of introspection that I invite you to join on our latest podcast, where I discuss the transformative pow…

Have you ever experienced the magic of the Morton Arboretum's illumination of lights? Or the thrill of picking your own Christmas tree at a farm? Come along with me, your host, Marcy Backhus, as I navigate the joyous holiday season, sharing snippets from my exhilarating life, from my ongoing home remodel to my enchanting experiences. I'll take you …

Have you ever wondered how to navigate the holiday season as a grandparent without feeling overwhelmed? Picture this: it's the holiday season, you're baking cookies with your grandkids, and you can't help but feel a sense of joy mixed with the occasional stress. This week on the Aging Ain't for Sissy's Podcast, join host Marcy Backes as she shares …

What you experience is often not what it seems at the time. It is influenced by your belief, by your bias and by your desires. Interesting stuff can take a long time to digest as we while away the time trying to fit square blocks into triangular spaces.Oleh Dorothy Holder

Ready to welcome in the New Year fully informed about the latest changes in Medicare? As the holiday season approaches, I, Marcy Backhus, take you on a cozy journey through my personal updates, from the festive spirit enveloping Chicago to the thrilling anticipation of a home remodeling project. But don't get too comfortable yet! The serious issue …

We are told that we can do anything, we are told that every day is a new beginning, we are told a lot of spiritual stuff that suggests there are great gains in molding the mind alone., Is it real?Oleh Dorothy Holder

Ever wondered about the secret to living longer, thinking stronger, and savoring the zest of life? Brace yourself for an intriguing journey as we unveil the world of superagers and their seven key strategies to longevity. From my personal tales of city living and Thanksgiving week to my upcoming condo remodel, there's a bit of everything to keep yo…

Has the glitz of the holidays lost its sparkle over the years? Join me, Marcy Backhus as we journey down the memory lane of holiday traditions, reflecting on how they have transformed in the face of our ever-changing society. From the mesmerizing light parade on Michigan Avenue to the giddy anticipation of unwrapping presents on Christmas Eve, we'l…

Ever wondered why the holiday season can be both exhilarating and overwhelming? Why do some of us feel an inexplicable sadness amidst all the merriment? As your host, I'm here to take you on a journey through my own rollercoaster of holiday emotions. Let's talk about the elephant in the room - holiday expectations. They can weigh on us, especially …

Have you ever found yourself falling into the comparison trap? We've been there, too, and in this episode, we address the destructive effects of this habit. Along with sharing our personal experiences, we offer practical tips to help you break free from comparing your life to others. We also discuss the importance of inspecting your chapstick colle…

You may notice that disciple is the primary energy of the word discipline. To be a disciple means to be an 'ACTIVE ADHERENT' to a philosophy or tenet, the operative word being active. Have you got what it takes to achieve your goals and dreams?Oleh Dorothy Holder

Believe it or not, Craig and I set off on an unforgettable jaunt from the bustling city of Chicago to the vibrant Cleveland, Ohio. Our journey was peppered with the most unique stops, including an enormous Amish restaurant, a McDonald's that would fit right into medieval times, and the awe-inspiring "touchdown Jesus" mural at Notre Dame. Cleveland …