The Sex Manswers show ignores political correctness in providing unfiltered direct advice specifically for women looking to improve their sex & relationship with the man in their life. Advice from other women lacks knowledge of the inner workings of the male mind, men hold back on couples hosted Podcast and if asked directly face to face, men will play safe with politically correct answers. If you want the real unfiltered answers, this is the show to get it. If you listen, it's assumed you'r ...
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Ep 102) The Self Inflicted Dry Spells
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The time will come in your relationship where your sex life hits a dry spell. Sometimes this is caused by the normal hustle and demands of daily life, however, sometimes that dry spell is self-inflicted. The self-inflicted dry spell happened recently with my Wife as a result of getting addicted to a show on Netflix. When this happens, you need to t…
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Ep 101) In-Laws Are Complicated & Questions Answered
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In the first half of this episode, I ramble on a bit about in-laws. These dynamics are complicated especially for men. The relationship with a father-in-law can be difficult and that's before you consider how men communicate and bond. If there is no common ground or interest, men will spend their time with in-laws in complete silence. In the second…
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EP 100) Women, Grow A Fu*king Backbone
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In this episode, I read and respond to women seeking answers to their relationship questions. Question 1: Plan to get married next summer, boyfriend stops in the middle of sex to answer a daily phone call with his parents. Is it wrong for me to be upset? Question 2: Found out my boyfriend posted on social media about a year ago that I was terrible …
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Ep 99) Money Over Happiness: Men Like To Dominate
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If given the choice, most men will choose making a lot of money doing something they have than making just enough doing something they like. Usually, this mentality has to deal with financial insecurity much like workaholism. There are ways to deal with this. Men have the need to dominate in their life. Feeling helpless or as if they are not in con…
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Ep 98) A Man's Special Birthday Request
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A man's birthday is a special day. For one, it's the one day of the year in which a man can take a day off of work and not have a to-do list of work needing to be done around the house. It's also a day in which he can just relax and do the things he enjoys or simply watch TV without having to pause the show dozens of times because of interruptions.…
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Ep 97) You're Man Is NOT A Mind Reader
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Communicate what you're thinking. It's unreasonable for you to expect that your man should be able to telepathically read your mind.
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Women, you have the natural advantage in a relationship, this is especially true when it comes to flirting. Confidence and motivation are more important than technique.
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Ep 95) Taking Your Intimacy Outside
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Having sex outside can be exciting. The thrill of possibly getting caught might be just what you need to feel the excitement you use to get about having sex when you first started getting laid.
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Ep 94) Avoid Self-Inflicted Wounds In Your Relationship
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You may not intend to do so, you may not realize you're doing it but if you're not careful you may be self-inflicting wounds into your relatioship.
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Ep93) Women, Don't Be Lazy In Bed
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Women, you can't be lazy in bed yourself and expect him to stay motivated enough to care about your orgasm.
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If your partner loves to receive oral sex then oral sex is not optional. Oral sex is great both as a stand-alone act or as foreplay. As foreplay, it's a way to tease him up a little bit and desensitize him so he lasts longer during penetration so that you have enough time or have an orgasm. As a stand-alone act, oral sex is a way to relieve sexual …
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Ep 91) Is Your Perception of Sex and Marriage Backwards?
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One trend that is toxic is that of women going on social media to bash and trash men. Complaining about their dating problems and then asserting that all the problems are because of men and couldn't possibly be them. This type of attitude in dating will bleed into your marriage if you manage to keep a man long enough to get to the alter. Being full…
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I understand there hasn't been an episode in the past couple of weeks. NO the podcast is not ending. I have been comparing software and plugins attempting to improve the audio quality of the show. Also, I have been completely distracted by what's going on in the election and what both sides are claiming. I don't know if there is or is not any truth…
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Ep 90) Intimacy After Sex
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We spend a lot of time on the lead up to sex and what to do during sex but what about after sex? Intimacy after sex is just as important and it's what men have the hardest time with. What makes after sex intimacy difficult is time constraints when you consider the need for after sex cleanup.
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Ep 89) Emotional Outrage Transference
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Actors are great at being able to mimic the emotions of a character they are playing. We can unintentionally do the same in our personal life. Over-identifying with victims or victim groups can cause us to filter our news feeds for only information about victimized people causing us to believe a problem that is statistically rare is running rampant…
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Ep 88) Zodiac Signs & Aphrodisiac
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Does your zodiac sign have anything to do with your personality or sex life? Aphrodisiacs have been around for a long time but do natural aphrodisiac work or are they a myth?
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Ep 87) Studies Show Most Unhappy With Their Sex Life
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It's sad to see how many in the US are unhappy with their sex life. Not having sex as often as they want and not engaging is the sexual acts they fantasize about. One of the biggest problems is that far too few talk about their sexual desire with their spouse. Article Talking About Sex With Your Partner View article...…
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Ep 86) Recognizing What's Not Working
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Sometimes your partner has a passion, a dream they want to accomplish. However, no matter how hard they work or how much effort they put into their passion it's not going anywhere. It's hard for them to see sometimes but you can't put yourself as an obstacle to their passion, instead, you have to help them realize for themself that what they are do…
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Ep 85) Does Your Man Still Have Balls?
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With the culture the way it has become, too many men have become neutered by society too afraid to speak up about anything. Women, be honest here, there is a gap between the men you find sexually attractive and want to spend your life with and the type of man many of you advocate for in society. In this episode, I use clips from the show Cobra kai …
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Ep 84) Pre-Marital Counseling & Netflix's Cuties
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What is pre-marital counseling mean & is it effective? Fetishes are not always healthy Does Netflix's "Cuties" cross a line and what does it say about society today.
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Ep 83) Working Together To Home school Our Kids
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We talk a lot on this show about sex but sex while fun is really a means to an end in our relationships. Bonding in the bedroom leads to bonding out of the bedroom high greater affection towards each other, increased communication, and working together. I discuss in this episode a major decision my wife and I made, the results we are seeing, and ho…
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Ep 82) Are Fetishes Weird? & How To Introduce BDSM Into The Relationship.
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In this episode, I talk about fetishes and how some are embarrassed to bring up or admit their fetishes to their partner because of fear of judgment. How to bring up BDSM in your relationship and getting BDSM started in the bedroom. Don't take the initial surprise reaction the wrong way but if you're unsure how your partner feels about BDSM bring i…
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Ep 81) Remove The Ceilings From Your Relationship
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Why do you put limits on your relationship? If you're going to spend your life together you need to remove boundaries and actually live your life together. In or out of the bedroom, having limitations is saying that you're not really married, your just economic partners with benefits. The limitations you place may be a result of your own insecuriti…
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No episode this week due to power outage caused by big storm
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On Mondays storm passed through my city with Winds of up to a hundred miles an hour. Been without power ever since, hopefully she'll will be back up next week
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Ep 80) Creating A Marriage With Intentional & Purpose
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Everyone wants to know the secrets to success and often disappointed by the answer. Why? They think the "secrets" are easy and effortless. In reality, it takes effort and planning. Here I discuss one tool that can help you build a happy and fulfilling marriage. The I talk about the 7 habits of happy couples and the 12 mistakes your may be making in…
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Ep 79) Wife Shows Excitement In Bed After Getting Financial Tightwad To Open The Wallet
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My wife was able to finally convince me to open up our accounts to get a new to us mom-mobile (minivan). She was driving a 1999 Chevy Venture up to this point. She was so happy in bed that night. I just wonder what her 19 year-old self would have thought seeing how excited she was getting a minvan. Support the Show https://www.paypal.me/JohnstonSho…
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Ep 78) Question You Shouldn't Ask Your Partner & NY Recommends Glory Holes For Safe Sex
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Searching the internet you can find all types of advice on sex and relationships, some of that advice is so horrible though you wonder if the person is trying to set you up for a fight or they have some far out there sexual fetishes. We have seen a lot a crazy & funny things happen as a result of the CoronaVirus, but hearing NY Department of heath …
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Ep 76) Cockblocked By My 3 Year Old
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Some times no matter what you do or how well you plan, your kids can and will interfere with your sex life. Men you need to be nice and grateful, get her some knee pads. Is there a way to give him that virgin first time feel? Yes and here is why guys will love it.
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Ep 75) Porno Consumption Skyrockets & Sound-Wave Orgasms.
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After catching up on some movies I am starting to get curious if certain things work or not. I was watching Private Parts, a movie about Howard Stern. I am curious if sound-waves really could trigger an orgasm. With everyone at home all day, the one industry that is skyrocketing is the porno industry. With that said, the one things I don't understa…
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Ep 74) Home-Made BDSM Toys & Top Marriage/Sex Questions Answered
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With all the stay-at-home orders you may be having more sex if for no other reason then for entertainment to pass by the time. With that you may be getting board with your current toys and with non-essential businesses shut down getting more toys to add to your collection may not be an option. There are items around the house that you can use to su…
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Ep 73) Listener Questions | What To Do, I Feel Like His Mother Instead of His Lover
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On this episode, I address a listener question. They have been living together for about a year and not yet married. She is doing the laundry, the cooking, packing snakes for him to take to work and so much more while she is a full-time student. Women, Should you still trust buying a vibrator made in China? Should you and your spouse consider makin…
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Ep 72) NY Offers Safe Sex Advice, Over Analyzing Lesbian Use of Sex Toys, & Random Thoughts
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This episode is less structured than previous episodes as we are all dealing with Covid-19 and the ramification financially and in our relationships. On this episode I go through NY safe sex advice (which to normal people is mostly reckless), I over analyze the concept of lesbians using strap on to simulate straight sex, Talk a little about home sc…
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Ep 71) The Lock Down From The #CoronaVirus Give You An Opportunity In Your Marriage
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With being stuck inside with limited travel for the next two to three weeks for much of the population, this will give you time to work on your communication, sex life, goal planning, and even starting a home based business. However this also mean that there is a chance to fix sexual dysfunction in your relationship. Also I give my recommended acti…
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Segment 1: The rising popularity of sex robots. Why? What does that mean for the future of romantic relationships? Segment 2: Having sex in rounds to deal with loss sensitivity or to close the time gap it takes for men vs women to orgasm. Segment 3: The number one key to starting anal sex right for women. This will also work great for virgins exper…
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Ep 69) Tips For Oral Sex and Increasing Intimacy
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Segment 1: You need to protect your marriage for the toxic messages of political culture Segment 2: Intimacy before and after marriage. Why men are less intimate after marriage Segment 3: Tips for improving or getting started with oral sex Segment 4: Tips for improving your overall marriage Follow Me | Facebook | Twitter| Support the show | PayPal …
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Ep 68) 5 Questions Women Need To Stop Asking Their Husbands
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We need to think about the question that are commonly asked in relationship. Some questions are designed to fish for a compliment other questions seem to be designed to start an argument
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EP 67) Sometimes You're Just Not In The Mood
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For whatever reasons there are going to be periods of time when you're just not in the mood for sex for some length of time. There can be many reasons why. Just as important as it is to open up and communicate what's going on if you even know yourself, it's also important to push yourself into the mood if you can. Also on today's episode I talk abo…
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Ep 66) Don't Be A Man Hater and Wonder Why Your Relationship Sucks
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A recent article I read informed that men don't want to date "Woke" women and that these women were angry about that. In what world do you think that blaming men for all your problems and that they must be crushed is an attractive quality? Woke women tend to have toxic personalities because they believe a lie designed to help them avoid responsibil…
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Ep 65) Spice Up The Bedroom With Bondage Play
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The Simplest Secret For Women Looking For Their Best Relationship Possible
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On this episode I talk about flirting with your man verbally and non verbally as you lead up to getting it on in the bedroom. Plus towards the end of the show I share with women the number one way they can improve their relationship to the best it possibly can be. Wife Recommends Bondage Set | Couples Vibrator | Toys For Dates | Follow Me | Faceboo…
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Best Of | Getting Started With Anal Sex
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Since Anal Sex episodes seems to be everyone's favorite, this episode from the archives gives advice on how to get started with Anal sex now that you have decided to try it.
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Single Sex VS Married Sex | Why Sex Is Much Better After Years of Marriage.
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Sex just gets better the longer you're with someone. It doesn't matter how much you slept around when you were single or how many short term relationships you had, sex in marriage is just better. There are several reasons why that is. In this episode I go through and compare from history sex when I was single and now. Wife Recommends Bondage Set | …
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Best of | Women, Keep Your Down Under Maintained
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In the last of the best of shows, my third most popular episode according to download numbers I lay out the reasons why guys like a shaved or at least fine trimmed pussy. I also explain the sexual benefits to women keeping their down under groomed. I will be back after the holidays with new episodes on Jan 9th Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagr…
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Best of | Oral Sex Is A Must In A Relationship
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On this episode, I replay my second most popular episode explaining to women why a Blow Job is a must in any relationship. I will be back with new episodes after the holidays starting Jan 9th. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagram| YouTube| Podcast| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|…
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Best of | Anal Sex & Butt Stuff
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This and the next two episodes will be rebroadcasting my most popular shows. Anal Sex & Butt Stuff is an explanation of why your guy may be asking you to try anal sex Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Instagram| YouTube| Podcast| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Question | Email | Web Form|…
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Getting Away with Sex During The Holidays
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Lets face it, one of the reasons why sex was so exciting as teenagers was the sneaking around behind you parents back and getting away with it. You can get that excitement back during the holidays sneaking around but you do have to be smart about it. Follow Me | Facebook| Twitter| Support the show | Shop | PayPal| Patreon| Anchor| Book| Ask Your Qu…
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Men: You Need To Do Your Part In Improving The Relationship Too
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In the first part of this episode I address the guys listening to this show. If you’re listening, especially with your wives than you have an increased obligation to engage with her outside of the bedroom and do the things she wants to do as well. This includes doing your part in keeping the house clean. Women, what your Husbands say and do CAN’T b…
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Women: How To Hit Your Sexual Peak Sooner and Make It Last Longer
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On this episode I talk about hitting your sexual peak sooner and making it last longer. The first thing you have to realize is that it is partly mindset. It's mindset to stop being concerned about how or what people think but also about being intentional with your sex life and marriage. Just like you're intentional with your money and career you ha…
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Sometime when we try something new it doesn't go as planned. Take the time before hand to learn what you need to know to pull it off successfully but no matter what happens don't give up experimenting just because it didn't go right the first time.
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To some, what holds them back sexually is what we call certain sex acts or body parts. The names make them feel dirty, subservient, or that they are just a sex toy for their partner. You will have to learn to get over what we call certain position or acts if your going to fully enjoy your sex life with your partner…
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