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Join spiritual teacher and author Scott Kiloby as he offers unique insights on a variety of topics (consciousness, inquiry, trauma, emotional repression, ending suffering, extra-terrestrial/dimensional phenomena, culture, politics, and LGBTQIA issues). This podcast will bust myths, shatter illusions, and welcome a greater depth of understanding and heart-centered wisdom around consciousness and this absolutely crazy, profoundly beautiful unfolding we call life! Take this free repression test ...
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In this podcast, Scott discusses how shame and guilt serve as protective layers shielding us from deeper, buried emotions. He explains that we often compartmentalize our reality, identifying with parts of ourselves that bring love and approval, while hiding the parts that evoke fear and shame. This division leads to ongoing suffering, with many ind…
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We create suffering to meet childhood needs. When those needs and the buried emotions connected to them are made conscious, we do not need to create suffering anymore. Listen to Scott explain how to capitalize on your own suffering. Come speak to Scott for free about working one on one with him: https://kiloby.com/scott.…
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In this episode, Scott discusses the intriguing connection between anxiety and buried anger, highlighting recent scientific findings that suggest a significant link. He emphasizes the importance of verifying if your anxiety stems from repressed anger by taking our free repression test. Scott explains that understanding the mechanism of buried anger…
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In this episode, Scott explores the concept of separation from the perspective of the unconscious, highlighting how buried emotions contribute to suffering. He discusses how this sense of separation arises from self-contraction due to trauma experienced in childhood, particularly with unconscious parents. By steering the conversation away from trad…
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In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of covert aggression that often lurked beneath his seemingly peaceful exterior. He reveals how this behavior coming from buried anger shifted the responsibility for difficult conversations or conflicts onto others, allowing him to maintain a façade of being the "good guy" while avoiding addressing deep…
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In the podcast, Scott introduces the concept of "post-election stress disorder," a term he coined to describe the emotional turmoil experienced after a candidate's loss in a presidential election. He suggests that this suffering often stems from unresolved childhood trauma and affects many people for the duration of the four-year election cycle. Sc…
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In this compelling episode, Scott delves into the profound impact of unmet needs tied to buried emotions on our suffering and our attempts to alleviate that suffering through spiritual practices. He emphasizes that as long as these needs remain unconscious, we find ourselves stuck in an avoidant spiritual path, failing to address the root causes of…
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Scott critiques the group of teachings and practices known as neo-advaita and other awareness- or now- based teachings and practices that point people to the recognition of freedom immediately. He provides a solid science-based context to reveal why these kinds of teachings miss emotional repression (the root of suffering) and therefore can expose …
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Scott discusses dissolving separation by making conscious how we create it for safety and love. This approach allows us to lovingly welcome all parts of ourselves instead of hiding in the body the parts we don’t like and identifying with the parts that get us love and keep us safe. To divide ourselves off in that way leaves separation in place. To …
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In this podcast episode, Scott explores his personal experiences and insights gained from working with individuals on the topic of the attachment styles in relationship. He simplifies this complex subject into an energetic dance influenced by fundamental needs for love and safety. As long as we remain unconscious of these needs, driven by the fear …
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Politics is personal and we’re often motivated by unprocessed emotion and trauma from childhood to identify with one party or another. Scott breaks down and cries in this episode, not because he’s afraid of one candidate winning over the other, but at the sheer unconsciousness of believing that we can solve the world’s issues from unprocessed traum…
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Scott breaks down what he sees as the real scandal in spirituality, the attempts to bring avoidant eastern practices to the masses while emotional repression remains untouched in the bodies of students. Scott explains how this is like a ticking time bomb with delayed but devastating results. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/sco…
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In this podcast episode, Scott explores his own co-dependency coming from buried anger and how over-giving to others and presenting himself as false was how he unconsciously sought to get childhood unmet needs for safety and love met. Listen and you may find a little, if not a lot, of yourself in this episode if you have buried anger. To work direc…
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In this episode, Scott explores the impact of repressing emotions, questioning whether those who suppress their feelings turn into rage-filled individuals or become engulfed in sadness and grief. He emphasizes that true self-discovery comes from addressing the root causes of our suffering. By examining how repressed anger, along with buried feeling…
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In the podcast, Scott responds to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasizes that selfishness or narcissism stems from holding back emotions, which leads to the creation of false identities and strategies for…
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In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create suffering in our relationships. Many people tend to seek external solutions—like practices or other individu…
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In this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing disconnection and prompting us to seek relief through various practices. However, because of buried e…
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In this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to recover or help others recover are coming from buried rage. Scott shares his personal experience o…
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In this episode of Scott's podcast, he delves into the nuances of emotional release on the spiritual healing journey. Scott discusses how, in our quest for spiritual experiences, we may inadvertently focus on releasing emotions that feel safer, rather than addressing the deeper, buried emotions that truly drive our suffering. This emotional repress…
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In this podcast, Scott explores authentic listening and its connection to emotional repression - especially buried anger. He explains that when emotions are buried, it's challenging to listen authentically, as people often freeze, shut down, or flee during difficult conversations. Scott reveals that the common feeling of not being heard actually st…
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In this episode, Scott shares his journey as a non-dual teacher who bypassed buried anger, leading to chronic nerve pain that almost became a "death sentence." He and other teachers have inadvertently encouraged this bypass in millions of people. Scott reveals how he dissolved the pain by making unconscious anger conscious. He explains why simply r…
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In this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and then teaches others to maintain repression by labeling less empathetic people as narcissists, rein…
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In this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these suppressed emotions. Traditional recovery programs and Eastern practices often fail to address thi…
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Scott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic mirrors. Listen to this light-hearted, impactful talk on true freedom. If you are interested in working wi…
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Our main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and others don’t. The answer lies below the surface. To speak to Scott about the 90-day program he ment…
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Scott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of us have to hide it. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course whi…
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Scott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing any unconsciousness that drives us. If we fail to do that, we enable the continuation of the very s…
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Scott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/men…
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Scott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's ourseven day Mentorship Discove…
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Scott shares about Goodism and tells his own story of being a good boy and holding anger back which led to a lifetime of falseness and suffering. All the bad parts come out in this episode where Scott pulls no punches to help those who can’t yet see that the social and relational rewards of being good, peaceful, nice, or perfect carry a massive dar…
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Scott tells the short story of Troy and Sarah who both cheated on each other for the same reason but neither one could see the real reason. This special episode brings to light the issues discussed in Scott’s recent episode “The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality.” To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course…
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Scott takes you first through a somatic test to reveal the avoidant programming in your body. He then shows how avoidance, avoidant attachment style, and avoidant personality disorder point to these core programs in the body for purposes of a practice. Scott then explains his guide to authenticity by inviting listeners to journal each day what is a…
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Scott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/. The characters in this podcast epis…
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You’ve never heard a love story like this before. Listen to this hour and a half unique episode where Scott explains very common unconscious emotional power dynamics through a simple story of two people who love each other as best as they can from the trauma that drives them. In this story, Scott takes us through a fictitious story about transforma…
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